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commentr/StutterOct 15, 2017
2 points

I have the exact same problem, no matter how confident I'm feeling, when they look at me expecting me to say something I freak out and normally blurt out something I don't even want. Strategies I us...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2017
1 points

I'll usually point to what I'm ordering and read off the menu, which happens to make it somewhat easier to say. It's as if I'm assuming the waiters don't have the menus memorized so it doesn't feel un...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2017
4 points

I feel the exact same way right now. I feel like If I was mute, people wouldn't be annoyed by me and I'd be happier. On the other side it would be frustrating not being able to speak at all. It would'...

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postr/StutterOct 12, 2017
5 points

How do I deal with blocks?

How do I deal with blocks? Hello Reddit! I am new to this community, and I wanted to get some insights on dealing with my stutter. I am 21 years old, and I recently became very open about my speech i...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2017
6 points

I have felt the same way, I'm 20 years older and am happy. Here's what I did. I'm a cleaning person. Yes not an impressive position but I don't have to talk. Lots of people engage me with friendly sm...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2017
3 points

Hey there! Hang in there -- that's a tough age, I remember stuttering a lot when I was in junior high and feeling really insecure about it. It takes time, it's a slow course, but stuttering can, in a ...

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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2017
3 points

I dont know what you should do, but Im glad that you are reaching for help. I wish you the best of luck, this is a Good forum to reach out to since we have all pretty much been in your shoes. Life usu...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Advice RequestsQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2017
2 points

I relate to the entire story and agree that people take fluent speech for granted. I'm 23 now and I'm sort of accepting it, but boy if I was granted one wish it would be to get rid of my stutter. Some...

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Sadness & HopelessnessSuicidal Ideation & High DistressQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2017
1 points

There's more to stuttering than just the physical action of speech - if there's a high anxiety component with a "milder" physical action, that's still a severe stutter. It's affecting his life in a se...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2017
1 points

Hi. Yeah, me neither! Which is why I wanted to meet one, actually. So, how severe is it for you? And do you avoid speaking in public, like maybe ordering in restaurants etc, for that?...

Causes & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationQuality of Life
postr/StutterSep 16, 2017
4 points

First year college student with a stutter

First year college student with a stutter I'm a first year college student and I mostly stutter when talking to people who work at the college. I often try to talk with fluency but if I stutter I stop...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2017
2 points

Is there anyway to shorten your shift? 11 hours seems a bit extreme. But that depends on how high the call volume is. I can't really give you advice. I have worked in a call center and I definitely st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesQuality of Life
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2017
2 points

This really is a great sub. I'm glad I found it. You really should go outside. Especially for things like grocery shopping. It's unhealthy to be couped up all day. Shopping doesn't require interacting...

Social & Relationships
Quality of LifeFriendships & Belonging
postr/StutterAug 30, 2017
36 points

I just wanted to say I love you guys

I just wanted to say I love you guys I just found this sub. It's really nice to see I'm not alone. We all have the same struggles that most people never even think about. Here's a toast to all times ...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyShame & EmbarrassmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2017
1 points

Health is good, of course. ;) I think you've sort of reversed the quality of life angle. When we get better at managing or dealing with our stutter, our QoL improves. Having a better mood in general...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Quality of LifeAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2017
2 points

Wow really did not expect such an in-depth answer and can promise you it means it a lot that random people take the time out of their day to formulate such a response. I do not think I need a medical...

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Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life+1 more
postr/StutterJun 18, 2017
10 points

Looking for advice

Looking for advice I use alcohol to combat my stutter, it allows me to speak at around 80 percent fluency which while not perfect is enough for me to freely express my thoughts and feelings.When I fir...

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Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Strategic Swearing/CursingHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2017
2 points

I don't know. It hasn't really gotten in the way of my daily life at this point, so I don't really think I have anything to worry about. In the case that things progress, however, I will keep that boo...

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Quality of Life
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2017
2 points

That would make me under five feet tall, but as a woman that's not so bad. Yes I would trade. My whole life would be different without the stuttering. I could enjoy the freedom to speak and my listene...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2017
1 points

I sympathize with her, it just stinks because it feels like i annoy people when i talk. It's not necessarily about her....

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Quality of LifeAnxiety & Social Judgment