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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2023
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Accept it for what it is. When it happens, bring it up and laugh about it. For some, this will work. For others, you will repel. That's good. because you only want to associate with those who accept y...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterSep 28, 2023
1 points

today’s discussion

today’s discussion i’d like to share a story in order to get a feedback or thoughts on this from you guys, because we’re all on the same boat. it’s quite long. today I finally graduated in physics. I...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterSep 27, 2023
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It only sounds good, but with every blocks , confidence got buried further and further and your decision making get very mess up....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterSep 26, 2023
1 points

In a weird way, I get more annoyed with people being understanding

In a weird way, I get more annoyed with people being understanding So I stutter.. well obviously because i’m posting here and i avoid online relationships for the most part when it comes to vc becaus...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 26, 2023
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I was at my aunts boyfriends birthday party a few days ago and I was sitting with my little cousin and an older man and he asked me what her name was and I said stuttered horrible trying to pronounce ...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterSep 26, 2023
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even my best friends who know it deeply bothers me still sometimes can't help but mock my stutter at times. It sucks, it's horrible and I wish I can just tell the world how much it really sucks to stu...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterSep 26, 2023
1 points

Why do people still respond so immature to stuttering?

Why do people still respond so immature to stuttering? I’m 22 and I have a stutter with visible head locking my whole life, it’s made it so that I’ve been bullied alot my whole life because of it, and...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterSep 26, 2023
1 points

I once had a job interview where I **and** the interviewer were stuttering. He had it a bit worse than me. There were some other people sitting in on the interview and they all pretended that everyt...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterSep 25, 2023
1 points

Had my first job interview with a blockage. Do you think I got the job?

Had my first job interview with a blockage. Do you think I got the job? I was applying for the new McDonalds near my house and was waiting like 20 minutes for the interviewer and this is how it went ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2023
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A cripple that has self confidence without a stutter, by my assessment, is more socially acceptable than a stutterer....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2023
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Oh in my head and heart I know she’s gonna be in a nursing home alone. No kids or grandkid visits...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2023
1 points

Yeah I will not listen to myself recorded esp if I can see myself speaking. Honestly as a kid this is probably what stopped my singing: people would record me singing Christmas songs and admire how I ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2023
1 points

It’s honestly surprising how many adults have openly laughed or mocked me. I don’t think she really understood/cared that she offended me. I put do not book with me in the system for her so HOPEFULLY ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterSep 23, 2023
1 points

Everything is so scary im scared

Everything is so scary im scared Im 16 years old and i started stuttering since i was born,im so scared of my future i think i should just die I always stutter everytime i talk,Its really worse when...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessSuicidal Ideation & High Distress+1 more
postr/StutterSep 23, 2023
1 points

I can not listen to my own voice recording from a video presentation

I can not listen to my own voice recording from a video presentation So I had a video presentation project for my college class and during the recording, I stuttered so much and spoke so badly. When I...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSuicidal Ideation & High Distress
commentr/StutterSep 22, 2023
1 points

Easier said than done as we all know too well. I could have a great week where i feel good about myself, and then one humiliating moment/comment could completely shatter my confidence, and as this pro...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 22, 2023
1 points

I believe so. I got my stammer when I was around 7 years old after my nan died (my dad's mum). Over the next few weeks I developed a stammer. It's weird as when my dad told me she passed away I said...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Experiential AssociationTrauma & PsychologicalShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 22, 2023
1 points

Its the self-conscious part, and also that people think im weird cause of How i talk so they dont reach out themselves either...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 22, 2023
1 points

May I ask why you eat alone? Do you want to eat alone or are you doing it because you feel self conscious about been a stammerer, and think you will be shunned because of it? Just asking...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2023
1 points

I understand your situation bro, I hate talking to people on the phone especially these official conversations. It takes so much of energy to talk with stutter in everyday conversations but in phone i...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment