postr/StutterSeptember 26, 2023

In a weird way, I get more annoyed with people being understanding

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In a weird way, I get more annoyed with people being understanding So I stutter.. well obviously because i’m posting here and i avoid online relationships for the most part when it comes to vc because of how embarrassing and cringe i feel.. like people judge me idk. I finally started to vc people .. idk i’ve known the for 6 months maybe it’s time to vc and it just feels so condescending when someone says “It’s okay, take your time, we will wait”.. like 😑 embarrassing, makes me feel like a little kid, and it comes across as they are trying to make me feel better but failing miserably, I rather people judge me and tell me to shut up then make me feel like a little kid. And I hate to say this but listening to other stutterers make me want to get annoyed. cause maybe it’s me projecting my own insecurities but i find it cringe. idk. anyways. i hate myself that i can’t speak correctly

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Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride