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commentr/StutterOct 6, 2022
2 points

Thanks for explaining. That’s great to hear your success and empowerment. Sounds very similar to me, except maybe the ways around the blocks. I’ve always held eye contact since I was a kid. (It’s a pr...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 6, 2022
7 points

Interviews are tough and being overlooked is a really tough thing to cope with, I am very empathetic to your experience, I am 37 and have had similar struggles. I wonder if sometimes we hinder ourse...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & PrideEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2022
2 points

I’m an early childhood teacher who recently got significant control of my blocks. Oddly, when it was bad, I *became* fluent in intense situations. “Johnny! Get off that electric fence!!” “Kevin!...

Causes & VariabilitySocial & RelationshipsSpeech & Stuttering
Situational VariabilityDisclosure & Telling OthersPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2022
5 points

Yeah, maybe he did. I usually tell my teachers about my stutter at the beginning of the year, so that we can set expectations for presentations and other class participation....

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2022
1 points

Most of others discomfort is bc they have no idea what’s going on. If you give them a heads up, they’ll understand. And most of the time bc patient...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2022
1 points

One last thing - 2 years ago, my heat/hot water went out for 3 days in cold winter weather. I convinced myself I “wasn’t using thermostat correctly” bc I was so scared to call. When I eventually c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2022
1 points

And an alternate opinion (from a member of the female species who has worked in human services): I disclose *for my benefit* on the premise that I block because I’m trying to hide my dysfluency. Any...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2022
5 points

And I’m here to disagree…again. I’m in the never disclose camp. (Except for major things, like to law enforcement or a judge in court) One: it’s almost comical to make a speech disabled person disc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2022
1 points

All very true. If I had to guess, are you uncomfortable with the “starting slowly” and voluntary stuttering/disclosure?...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2022
1 points

Stop thinking about “which words you will block on”. It can be any in some circumstance and it could be none in some circumstances. Your block trigger is “having to talk and probably blocking at so...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringFluency Techniques+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2022
10 points

But you do have dysfluency. Trying to hide it CAUSES blocks (which are probably much more impactful than repetitions). Try making eye contact, speaking slowly and enunciating. Disclosing also helps...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 1, 2022
3 points

pws here. tell her you stutter. be regular about it. don’t make it some big deal until you feel comfortable with her then you can give her the full story. what i have found is that no one cares but wh...

Social & Relationships
Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2022
5 points

Do it man, I asked out my crush about 6 years ago and now we are happily married. My wife knows I stutter, I believe to just be confident with yourself and if you could/feel comfortable let her know ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHope & MotivationHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2022
2 points

Wow that’s a lot! Im hoping this helps people. But if this amount of information/steps/analysis is overwhelming for you, try this: 1. Make normal eye contact 2. Exhale normally 3. Start speak...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Fluency TechniquesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2022
1 points

Did that in my undergrad years. Now I am in grad school and do presentations infront of class, I disclose and nobody cares about it tbh. I get a lil bit stress during it and get chills but, it's reall...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterSep 27, 2022
14 points

Suggestions?

Suggestions? I have had a moderate stutter since i can remember. I am in medical school rn and i am just so sick and tired of not only being anxious about any kind of communication with my peers or pr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 26, 2022
1 points

I get blocks. I tell clients I stutter. It prevents misunderstandings. For example, when I have to respond with "A but B" but pause before "but" and assume I'm finished, that could lead to terrible mi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2022
8 points

Same positive experience! When I used to spend every waking hour trying to hide my stutter, and then got insulted when people didn’t wait patiently for me to finish, that just made no sense. They di...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride+1 more
postr/StutterSep 25, 2022
16 points

Telling employers/clients you stutter. What has been your experience? Here's mine

Telling employers/clients you stutter. What has been your experience? Here's mine Ever since I became super comfortable with my stuttering and saw it as a strength (still on that path tho), I ALWAYS t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterSep 23, 2022
22 points

Socialising and stammering

Socialising and stammering (Sorry if this has no flow or structure btw idrk where to start and it may be quite long so sorry for that too) For a bit of context, I’m currently at a football (U.K.) col...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more