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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2023
3 points

I successfully hid my stutter by giving up talking or flat out lying. (Ordering food I hated, using my middle name, pretending to forget etc) The laughs of others can be legitimate nervous laughter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2023
2 points

For reference, many many SLP do not even know the true depth of a complex dysfluency. I don’t know about you, but I *spent* most of my time trying to hide my stutter. I got very good at this (mostly...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2023
2 points

I feel you buddy. I'm 28 and definitely still struggle with the worst blocks. I just launched the first Slack-based stuttering community for professionals who stutter and we have over 150+ members alr...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2023
3 points

Hey! I completely understand and feel what you're going through. When we're excited or need to say something important, we seem to stutter the most - it's honestly really frustrating as a person who s...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2023
2 points

During presentations in college, I would start with “I stutter, so might as well get comfortable cause this may take a while”.. always lightened up the room and took the edge off even more...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2023
1 points

I don't like the phrase "working on" though because it kind of implies if you have a stutter you're just too lazy to fix it....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2023
2 points

Hey! We talk about this all the time in the stuttering community I launched just a few months ago. It's the first Slack-based community specifically for professionals who stutter and is totally free t...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2023
6 points

This is all very classic impactful dysfluency (blocking, esp on things you have to say, like your name). A hard silent block is based on fear of people hearing your repetitions, imperfections - the ...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2023
3 points

I even let them know some of my secondary behaviors. A lot of people know how a typical stutter looks like but they do not know secondary behaviors....

Social & RelationshipsSpeech & Stuttering
Disclosure & Telling OthersPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2023
2 points

I typically do. I've also never had an issue with employment due to my speech. In college, I always let my professors know and it was registered as a disability with the school as well. Most the time...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & CareerAccess & Rights
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2023
1 points

disclosing your stutter can help .. most time your audience don't know how to react when you start stuttering. From their perspective, they might be smiling politely, but to the stutterer, it might fe...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2023
3 points

This is a very insightful and informed response. Until and unless they know what’s going on, they get the benefit of the doubt. Disclose your stuttering!...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2023
1 points

Have you ever said “hey guys, ya know when I have those pauses and repeats? I’m actually just tryna be a DJ.” *after they laugh WITH you* “You guys have always been great, but I do really struggle w...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2023
8 points

Two things can be true at the same time 1. It hurts like hell. 2. If we haven’t disclosed in some way, it’s not their fault, or evidence they are laughing at our “disability”/difference. Now, if ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentDisclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2023
1 points

I think it's quicker and easier to just say a few words that you have said many times before that you know you won't stutter on. I have a hard time with "new" words that I wouldn't normally use in my ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 31, 2022
2 points

Some ppl in this sub will tell you to embrace your stutter or just “don’t care what others think”. If you could do that, you would. Others may suggest you make spreadsheets, charts and graphs to an...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling OthersFluency Techniques+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 31, 2022
1 points

Personally, I got off psych meds and after, found a great pOdcast from a SLP/PWS. I learned a few very important things - one was that talking is a fine motor skill, and like them all, gets messier t...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2022
4 points

Hi, I stutter (24m) and I’m currently in college and went through this. Tbh I just stuttered and said my name, I didn’t even disclose that I stutter bc honestly they could already tell hahahaha. No on...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersStigma & BullyingSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2022
1 points

You can just say your name and that you don't like talking in public because you have a stutter. As much as you feel comfortable saying. Or even tell the lecturers your feelings and ask them to in...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2022
2 points

Depending on what the intros consist of, you can address it (own it) right then and there. _Hi I'm bananalizard. I'm from Walla Walla, I play basketball, I have a stutter._ if you're up to it you can...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride