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commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2023
3 points

yah same im embarrassed to just say it blatant like that . never even talked ab it w my bf 😭...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2023
3 points

The only time I really ever disclose now is for a job and that's if I feel like I'm struggling. I'm mild now as well and well sometimes it can be obvious other times its not. You don't have to tell ot...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2023
9 points

I am like you, good looking guy I think and mild stutter but not once have I told any of my friends. I mean it’s not like I hide it but I don’t disclose I just go about my day. I thing it’s pretty obv...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterFeb 13, 2023
11 points

choosing to not disclose stutter

choosing to not disclose stutter im just trying to see if anyone on here doesn’t tell their friends about their stutter ? i’ve never told any of my close friends ever and kind of figured they could al...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2023
11 points

You should tell him straight up not to do that. If he can’t listen, move on. There are too many empathic understanding people in the world for you to be with someone who isn’t sensitive to your stutte...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterFeb 13, 2023
24 points

what's up? I'm a newbie

what's up? I'm a newbie Hey everyone, My name's johnson, and I've been dealing with studdering and social anxiety ever since I was a kid. After lurking here on Reddit for a couple of years, I came ac...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2023
5 points

Part of being in a relationship is communicating. It’s essential. You need to be able to tell him how you feel about what he said. And in a healthy relationship he should be able to take what you said...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2023
10 points

not being able to say your name is so common for us stutterers. when someone asks what your name is, it’s one of those questions that you should be able to answer instantly so when you don’t, they alw...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2023
1 points

I might be late but when I was younger I was super embarrassed by my stutter so I would never bring it up for job interviews. Hardly anyone ever got back to me. Fast forward a couple years, I had an ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2023
3 points

Hi. I just wanted to say, I feel what you've said very strongly. It's kind of a comfort to read your post actually. I have a stutter too (or 'stammer' as I call it) and I've had it since I was a child...

Community & SupportIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Personal StoriesAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+3 more
postr/StutterFeb 8, 2023
1 points

2 truths and a lie game: how to disclose that I stutter?

2 truths and a lie game: how to disclose that I stutter? [deleted]...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterFeb 8, 2023
1 points

2 truths and a lie game: how to disclose that I stutter

2 truths and a lie game: how to disclose that I stutter [deleted]...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2023
3 points

Absolutely, always disclose as much and as early as possible. I’m fact, SLP who specialize in dusfluency cite disclosing as one of the most effective strategies. When ppl give advice here, before ta...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterFeb 6, 2023
4 points

Job interview

Job interview This is my first time on this sub, nice meeting people who I can relate to. I'm going to have a really important job interview in 2 weeks... I already decided ill tell the interviewer i...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2023
2 points

When I'm feeling confident, I say more and stutter more and speak like a slow version of Drew Lynch. When I'm feeling anxious and forget to voluntarily stutter, I get more blocks and speak like a gr...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2023
3 points

It depends on the requirements of the job, the type/intensity of stutter, whether you disclose, and the interviewer. When I was having very hard blocks, I would not have been able to fulfill requirem...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2023
7 points

I cannot hide my stutter. When I did not disclose, the interview went horribly south. When I did disclose, I got it out there and now I could focus on answering the questions. I ask all my podca...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2023
1 points

We need to be willing to be less than perfect, to be ā€œbadā€ at speaking. partly to let the other person know that we stutter (and it’s no big deal) and partly to show to ourselves that it’s n...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureDisclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2023
1 points

What about approaching a stranger on the phone for something you want? What about leaving that message on their answer machine, your name and the details of what you want? Should it always b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 4, 2023
7 points

I don’t use the word ā€œcureā€ bc I still have occasional repetitions, and occasional blocks. But I have the tools to quickly move onto my next sound. I go out of my way to make small talk, easily give...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureDisclosure & Telling OthersFluency Techniques