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postr/StutterJun 5, 2024
21 points

What are some analogies you use to try to explain how stuttering feels?

What are some analogies you use to try to explain how stuttering feels? I've always described it as trying my best to keep my head above water when I dont know how to swim. Sometimes I'm just under wa...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJun 5, 2024
6 points

I feel worthless and unlovable

I feel worthless and unlovable I’ve always found it so hard to cultivate friendships, much less romantic relationships. I met my crush on vacation, and we hung out for two days. I'm a socially anxious...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFriendships & BelongingHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2024
1 points

Yes, it does. Doesn’t matter how confident or masochistic your approach is to stuttering as a whole. You always have to deal with external problems.....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2024
1 points

What you said is not wrong, but on the other hand let's say I'm 100% positive that I have the stuttering genes and decided to have a baby wouldn't that be injustice to that child? I know he will stutt...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Genetic & Family FactorsHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJun 5, 2024
5 points

A curse, but sometimes I think a blessing.

A curse, but sometimes I think a blessing. I've been stuttering all my life, and hated every bit of it. And get so angry sometimes if I can't get a specific word out that I needed for a sentence, that...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 4, 2024
3 points

If I asked you how you ”unlearned” such a critical skill in the first place, you probably wouldn’t have a good answer. I think a more likely situation is that it’s a complex handicap affected by a la...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJun 4, 2024
47 points

any doctors here who stutter?

any doctors here who stutter? Hey, I am a 3rd year medical student about to start rotations. I stutter pretty " well" and consider my stutter moderate-severe . for lack of a better way of saying it I ...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 4, 2024
3 points

My uncle has a severe stutter and is almost a depressed recluse because of it. I've said to him more than once, if I was in his position, I would learn sign language and just pretend I couldn't sp...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2024
1 points

No, what you'll find is regret that you didn't stand up for yourself. You'll replay that moment in your head over and over again. You'll think about what you wish you had said or done. And it will con...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJun 2, 2024
29 points

I feel cursed and helpless

I feel cursed and helpless There is not a single day that I don't think about my condition and how it makes my life so miserable. Everything started when I was a little kid, a different kid that didn'...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2024
2 points

I have brought out this same topic in many past stutter message boards!!! We could be responsible for someone living or dying...imagine if a totally severe stutter person had to call 911 for someone...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2024
3 points

Same here! For very short times it’s so mild I completely forget about it, other times it takes over my mind/life day and night....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2024
1 points

I went through this process in a different way, I have anxiety like a lot here and having to talk to somebody I didn't know/go out often brought me to tears but I got depressed and planned to die in a...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterJun 1, 2024
38 points

Are we an easier target for bullies since we can’t defend ourselves?

Are we an easier target for bullies since we can’t defend ourselves? Are we an easier target for bullies, not because we stutter, but because we can’t (or can hardly) defend ourselves? Let’s say your ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 31, 2024
2 points

Think of something you dont need to speak while doing it I have the same issue not even with a severe stutter and i still feel i dont get the recognition i deserved or that i was looking for because o...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2024
2 points

Yeah man exactly. I've been through that all my life also, and have had horrendous experiences..but at my age even though I'm younger than you by almost 20 years I'm burnt out and done with life.. I u...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyHope & MotivationShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2024
2 points

That's true. In the past people have thought I was having a stroke or some kind of manic attack because my blocks are so severe & sometimes I start spitting even. It's horrendous. So you think I sho...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2024
2 points

Your 100% right brother. Everybody should ask for help and accept themselves. But for me & the masculinity thing it doesn't make sense ill admit. But it's still another thing that makes me feel innept...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social JudgmentTrauma & Psychological+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2024
8 points

Thank you! And glad to hear you are in a better place now Unfortunately there isn’t a support group nearby and as i mentioned in the post i rarely have time to go out and meet people. All i want is t...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
postr/StutterMay 29, 2024
46 points

I can’t take it anymore

I can’t take it anymore I have a severe stutter and I am becoming 99% nonverbal because of panic and severe anxiety. I know at this point it’s not the stuttering itself; it’s the trauma building up...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightShame & Embarrassment+1 more