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postr/StutterJul 22, 2024
12 points

RANT!!!! Feeling inadequate

RANT!!!! Feeling inadequate So I try to not let my stutter get in the way of me living life. I’m very outgoing with lots of friends & I still try to engage in conversation even if I sound like I’m hav...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2024
9 points

Been there, was very afraid to speak in school, was ashamed of myself, didn't have any friends, everyday was hatred towards anything and nothing but stress, i am 20yo now, and stutter reduced itself (...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJul 21, 2024
18 points

stuttering has made me hate my life.

stuttering has made me hate my life. I recently turned 14. I've been stuttering since i was, I'd say, 11 years old and it has honestly ruined my life. All my life I've been a very quiet person but ev...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessSchool & Academic LifeStigma & Bullying+3 more
postr/StutterJul 21, 2024
19 points

Struggling mentally

Struggling mentally I am 27 year old man with a stutter, which I have had since the age of 6. I am ashamed to admit, I am nearly 30 and I still have not come to terms with this speech disorder. I can...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2024
5 points

I have stuttered all my life and would love to share my experiences as well! It's been at its worst during my childhood, there were many moments I couldn't say four words in a row without stuttering.....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 20, 2024
3 points

It’s made me a very strong person because it’s hard to forget the humiliation - so I never look down on anyone realizing they have their own battles they are fighting. I became a tutor and I appreciat...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 20, 2024
16 points

How long did it take you? What techniques did you use? Also how do you cope with the feeling of shame or embarrassment after stuttering?...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Shame & EmbarrassmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2024
3 points

Thanks for sharing, can absolutely relate to your experience. I'm in the U.S. and have been around a few decades longer than yourself, but I still vividly remember the fear of being called on in sch...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2024
5 points

I'm also a woman who stutters, I find I get mansplained to a lot because I don't sound articulate and men assume I'm slow and unconfident. I hate that I end up just agreeing with whatever is said beca...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2024
2 points

The notions are a bit vaguely interconnected and the scheme ends up too broad. I studied the link with Parkinson's years ago. I didn't find much pragmatic utility, except for people who stutter being...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Neurological & BrainStress & Fight/FlightShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2024
16 points

ngl this post is not great. I can see why you are heartbroken but it adds to the fact that we are not complete or can't be enough ever. I am a woman who stutters and I have had the worst week. I know ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2024
2 points

What I personally expect is more people specifically young people to shut they're mouths & treat stuttering like any other disability. Even tho when in school I did see some kids making fun of kids in...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2024
7 points

Unfortunately this is why I stopped being social years ago. I'm 32 & have been alone for 5+ years. Yeah it sucks but for me it's better than torturing myself with constant embarrassment everyday...I w...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Loneliness & IsolationShame & EmbarrassmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2024
0 points

Im sorry but people saying they feel retarded when they stutter will never not be funny to me lmao. I know the feeling man, we all go through it, its better to laugh about it😅...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Humor & Community ToneShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2024
2 points

I can see it from both sides. 2 times in my adult life, for about 3 months each time, I was able to achieve seemingly complete fluency. Both times I went through a 3 week intensive fluency shaping pro...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2024
10 points

There’s no other alternative other than accepting that this is your fate. I feel your pain. I had trouble introducing myself today at work and had to spell my name out. It’s embarrassing. I feel bad...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterJul 18, 2024
19 points

People want you to be ok with stuttering when they never could be

People want you to be ok with stuttering when they never could be People want me to accept and love myself despite stuttering, knowing that they would never choose to stutter if given a choice. A lo...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingAcceptance & PrideShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2024
1 points

It also sucks when you have a punch line for them but they didn't get it because of your stutter. (Happened like 20 mins ago)...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2024
1 points

Best fir me, I totally avoid talking bout my stutter, find it to much of a embrassment...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2024
5 points

Thanks for your insight. Sometimes when someone does that to me regarding a “flaw” i have, it can feel a bit infantilizing. But I will try and think of ways to make it sound merely compassionate....

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment