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commentr/StutterAug 6, 2018
6 points

Don't do this. You're going to wind up stuttering all the same except now you'll find yourself with a tapping habit you'll have to work to get rid of. The singing thing is universal. You want to avo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational Variability
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2018
3 points

I know it’s easier said than done but don’t let your stutter control you. If you want to converse with your parents, do it. This kind of stuff has a habit of building on itself. Fearing a stuttering...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindfulness & BreathingAvoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2018
2 points

Definitely a hard one for me. I started saying “Why, thank you”... kinda like a southerner. It’s been working so far for me ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2018
1 points

I think that it does weaken a stutterers speech in the long run. I started realising this when my family would finish a lot my sentences when I knew that I could have said it myself so I explained whe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionListener Reactions
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2018
1 points

stuttering does not stop me for applying for jobs.. I know what to say but i don't know why It changes when its an interview.. i had a phone interview yesterday and the recruiter noticed and asked.. s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2018
2 points

Depends. Some days my stutter is really bad, some days its ok. On the days its really bad, I get relieved when people complete my sentences for me. People are different though. Sometimes if you keep...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionListener Reactions
postr/StutterAug 4, 2018
8 points

Online friend tells me to "just talk i dont care" but i just can't and it's getting annoying. what are your guy's thoughts?

Online friend tells me to "just talk i dont care" but i just can't and it's getting annoying. what are your guy's thoughts? ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2018
18 points

Nothing was really said but here goes. Last Wednesday I had to present my summer research to professors and fellow scholars. It was only a 5 minute presentation and I was fully prepared for it - pract...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2018
2 points

Sorry, I should clarify that I was being a bit tongue in cheek with that example! Though oddly enough, I personally found that I was able to act in high school; my stutter was non-existent in that par...

Community & SupportAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Personal StoriesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterAug 3, 2018
0 points

How I started (and maybe stopped soon) stuttering.

How I started (and maybe stopped soon) stuttering. So last night I decided to go out, have some fun and get suuuper stoned. That’s a typical fun night out with the boys for me and nothing was new, but...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)
postr/StutterAug 2, 2018
13 points

Career choice and stuttering is an obstacle

Career choice and stuttering is an obstacle I have been working as a software engineer for about 12 years now . Originally I am from India and I make good money in USA. I have a son who is 3 years old...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
postr/StutterAug 1, 2018
3 points

Blocking on people's names. Any advice?

Blocking on people's names. Any advice? Hi, I can say certain names fine, but some I just block and can't say them. Names are difficult as I can't substitute a name for another word I can say. Par...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
postr/StutterAug 1, 2018
8 points

I've been avoiding retail and customer service jobs like the plague!

I've been avoiding retail and customer service jobs like the plague! I work full time in a non-speaking position (dream job for a stutterer, right?), but I want to earn a little extra cash to knock my...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2018
2 points

It has high "propositionality" (it has a specific meaning in a specific social context in a specific time) Social pressure + time pressure + few synonyms ... likelihood of stuttering may be higher (a...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Propositionality & WeightStress & Fight/FlightAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2018
1 points

Yes! and do you ever get the people who sarcastically say "you're welcome?" that drives me up the wall. If it's just someone holding a door or something, I've come to terms with looking rude. But for...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2018
1 points

Moderate stutterer here. I think you shouldn't try to not stutter, more you try not doing it will result in stuttering more . The best way is, accepting that you will stutter, and just letting yoursel...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2018
9 points

Often I skip the "th" part and just say "ank you". Works much better for me and no one has ever seemed to notice....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2018
3 points

I've found it much better for me to say 'Cheers' as I struggle way less with that than "thank you", depends on your situation though....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2018
1 points

i have tried that before..still didn't work.. i have tried psyching myself.. and my tongue gets tied.. I am not giving up though.. i can't afford to as I need a job asap. I am hoping i get past this h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2018
1 points

Oh yeah, I didn't think about that. I guess I can just do two grunts. Like overtime when my parents said "love you," I just had to make two sounds that sounded like "love you" and they didn't question...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution