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commentr/StutterJan 12, 2019
6 points

Almost all of my other teachers call on me the whole time as well w the exception of 1 or 2 but you’re probably right about what he thinks. He’s been at the school since the 70s/80s and I’d imagine th...

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commentr/StutterJan 12, 2019
27 points

I have the opposite experience. Teachers would call on me all the time unless I said something about it after class. Just tell your teacher that you want to be more involved during reads, he probably ...

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commentr/StutterJan 12, 2019
3 points

I wouldn’t do it to often because one of the worst things for me anyway is when people try to complete what I’m trying to say and get it wrong and then I have to keep struggling. Also it sometimes fee...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Listener ReactionsAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterJan 12, 2019
12 points

do I wait, or do I complete the sentence?

do I wait, or do I complete the sentence? Alright, this is going to be a bit long because I really want to understand and make this new guest I have comfortable. I’m a bartender. I recently had this y...

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commentr/StutterJan 12, 2019
1 points

I feel you, I block really bad and when I get on and off the bus, or walk into a store or some shit I always try to say hello and goodbye but sometimes it just doesn't come out. Also when introducing ...

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commentr/StutterJan 11, 2019
1 points

lmao people always think im rude because I don't say "thank you" or "good bye" because I know I will stutter. For thank you I always use the thumbs up...

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commentr/StutterJan 11, 2019
1 points

Not sure why you would group the Vice President with a no-name comedian. You might as well add Stuttering John from the Howard Stern show but he’s treated as a joke. Note: Biden doesn’t stutter open...

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commentr/StutterJan 11, 2019
2 points

I definitely get where you're coming from. It's happened to me quite a few times where somebody will hold a door open for me and I just can't get myself to say thank you because of my stutter. It make...

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commentr/StutterJan 11, 2019
2 points

I totally get where you're coming from. I've been having an incredibly hard time just saying "thank you" and "thanks" recently. I feel like I'm giving off real jerk vibes, but what can you really do?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2019
1 points

I was also very nervous doing my interviews. Just be sure to let your interviewer know you have a stutter and try your best. I stuttered horribly through mine because I was so nervous and still got th...

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commentr/StutterJan 11, 2019
1 points

I was in my first real interview just a couple days ago. Went really well, I know my stuff. I never told them I stutter because, well, they could hear it. They didn't ask either and never reacted stra...

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commentr/StutterJan 11, 2019
1 points

The issue with this is that I generally can't get out the retort, which leads to more TODAY JUNIOR" comments. ...

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commentr/StutterJan 11, 2019
1 points

Cancelling will be the worst thing you can do. You're in college, which means that getting a job is the end goal. How else do you expect to get a job? My advice is don't be afraid to stutter. Start...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2019
3 points

Sorry; soap box speech here. Please don't cancel as a result of the stutter. It may ease the anxiety in the short-term, but you may have regrets. Think of how this job will set you up on your resume...

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commentr/StutterJan 11, 2019
4 points

I'm in my first year and I've got the exact same issue as you. Please go to the interview. Please. It will only be good for you. Even if you don't get the job, that's more real interview experience un...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2019
2 points

Totally awesome topic. I did my college app essay on my stutter and how I pretty much overcame it every time I was engaged in public speaking. I did forensics which is the National Speech and Debate a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionSchool & Academic LifePublic Speaking
postr/StutterJan 11, 2019
2 points

Anybody Else?

Anybody Else? My stutter is not chronic, but it happens often enough to make social situations difficult. I try to plan out my sentences and everything beforehand to prevent it, and sometimes I get th...

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commentr/StutterJan 11, 2019
1 points

I always sat at the corner of the table, so the waiter/waitress could stand next to me and I didn't have to speak to loud. That always gave me confidence. Somehow I can order food now, no matter wher...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2019
1 points

It's great that you feel so positively about your job! Hope the best for you. Switching jobs is such a daunting thought for someone who stutters. Specially when most of the initial interviews happen...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2019
2 points

Been in a new job since October. The team is new to my company so we are all learning everything from scratch. I am at the space where I am not as confused but also far from knowing everything. Thi...

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