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commentr/StutterNov 3, 2019
2 points

This is another avoidance trick and will therefore only take you so far and add unnatural behavior to your speaking pattern. I do appreciate you sharing something to help others and I'm glad it's work...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterNov 3, 2019
0 points

Stuttering and Fillers (tip)

Stuttering and Fillers (tip) One of my tactics to largely reduce my stuttering, as much as 70%, is to use fillers. This will not work for everyone, but it will probably help some people. **What are ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
postr/StutterNov 2, 2019
8 points

Is what I have considered a stutter?

Is what I have considered a stutter? So I'm not sure if what I do is considered stuttering. Sometimes when I talk there are certain words that just dont come out. The words are never the same either...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2019
2 points

I agreed. I have never believed in the speech modification technique and never thought that word substitution was a good idea. It might be counterintuitive, but doing so will only aggravate stutteri...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & WeightEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2019
1 points

Same here. I'm nowhere near as good with Spanish as English but I have a wayyy harder time communicating in Spanish due to this. In English it's hard to even pick up I stutter because I can control it...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2019
1 points

Yes, I have Block Stuttering too. For me, it tends to become less frequent when I don’t pay attention to what I’m saying, I just let words spill out. But if I’m reading something out loud, or reciting...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2019
2 points

I’m the same with Vietnamese. Even though I was born here and my first language was Vietnamese, I know more English because I grew up here (due to school, work, etc). I struggle more in Vietnamese. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringSituational Variability
postr/StutterNov 2, 2019
6 points

i am bilingual and my stutter is way worse in spanish than it is in english

i am bilingual and my stutter is way worse in spanish than it is in english I used to stutter much worse in both English and in Spanish but since I've been an "adult" my stutter is much better in Engl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterNov 2, 2019
14 points

Be yourself

Be yourself In my opinion it is much better (and simpler) to just say what you want to say and stutter through it, than to be some person you’re not, eating food you don’t want to eat, avoiding many p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+2 more
postr/StutterNov 2, 2019
10 points

Acquired adult, highly situational stutter?

Acquired adult, highly situational stutter? Hi there, I'm hoping to find others who can relate to this and possibly shed some light on what is going on. I don't recall ever having issues with stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2019
1 points

Just commenting here to show my support. I’ve been there as well. It’s incredibly humiliating but hey, every time I quickly add after that that I stutter they all have this guilty and shameful look in...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2019
2 points

Couple of remarks here, in the interest of contributing to the perspective sharing: - >**We stopped going** and well, I continued stuttering. I'm now 28 years old. Of course you continued. That'...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
postr/StutterNov 1, 2019
21 points

Tips, Techniques, and My Experience

Tips, Techniques, and My Experience As a life-long stutterer, it's truly hard to describe the relief to find this subreddit. When I saw it online, my first thought was "wow there's a subreddit for eve...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentExperiential Association+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2019
4 points

I do, often with a mild chuckle. 99.9% it's a harmless attempt at humor and if I ever said something about me having a speech issue, they would likely feel horrible. I brush it off whenever possible...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2019
1 points

While it is very frustrating (I've been there many times myself), more often than not, they aren't mocking you. They likely don't even notice a speech impediment at all, they likely lack patience in t...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Listener ReactionsAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterNov 1, 2019
3 points

My stutter sounds wierd how can I change it?

My stutter sounds wierd how can I change it? Hey I have been stuttering from childhood till now I'm 23 years old and my stutter sounds like a broken car, my brother and my father also have a classic s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
postr/StutterNov 1, 2019
68 points

Not being able to say my name is making me very depressed

Not being able to say my name is making me very depressed I'm really tired of people treating me like shit because of my speech disability. Just today I was at a resteraunt and placed my order, they a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2019
2 points

I know someone who also only started stuttering at 18. it's rare but not unheard of. Only advice I can give (other than find a *_qualified_* speech therapist who understands stuttering) is to know it ...

Community & SupportIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Advice RequestsIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2019
3 points

Not exactly a reception job, but when I was an intern in the sales division, my boss asked me to memorize a 3-min long sentence of the description of our services. Interestingly, I found it easier t...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Preparation & RehearsalAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2019
2 points

I think it won't but I will assume you having very mild stuttering, given you had been fluent for 20 years. My advice would be to first self-reinforce your psychology by recalling your positive memory...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftOverthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution