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postr/StutterApr 9, 2024
15 points

I dyed my hair pink and started wearing earrings to help alleviate my stuttering

I dyed my hair pink and started wearing earrings to help alleviate my stuttering Hi, I’m a 20-year-old male, and I want to share my success story. A year ago, I realized that my stutter worsened becau...

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commentr/StutterApr 9, 2024
7 points

The whole problem is you obsessing about it, most of the time, people really don't give a f about your stuttering, theyre like : oh u stutter, ok (idgaf but alright). You are making a problem of stutt...

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commentr/StutterApr 8, 2024
4 points

Take the wins, however small they are. If you need to remind yourself, write it down. I used to create a win journal that I’d fill out everyday with wins big and small. Be open to failing 1000 times s...

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commentr/StutterApr 8, 2024
1 points

Well I stopped taking Ashwaganda last year. I did get more fluent but not because of Ashwaganda but more of just letting go from the fear. From that post 2 years ago, I think I just accepted that me a...

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commentr/StutterApr 8, 2024
12 points

You have to remember to put yourself out there! You won't get anywhere by sitting in the background for the rest of your life, put yourself in uncomfortable situations where you're the center of atte...

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commentr/StutterApr 5, 2024
1 points

Apparently the best thing for this is “don’t care about what they think” It’s hard and I’m starting to work on it. I’ve been trying to change my mindset from “oh shit… they think i’m an idiot” to “if ...

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commentr/StutterApr 5, 2024
1 points

This is what made me a little mental over the first 35 years of my life. Why were there sometimes I was in flow and then other times I wasn’t. I figured out some areas of focus that have totally shift...

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commentr/StutterApr 4, 2024
2 points

Before you look for a solution, before you apply any tips and tricks, before you take any substance to help you speak, CHANGE YOUR MINDSET about your stutter. If you don't change your mindset, you'll ...

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postr/StutterApr 2, 2024
16 points

My personal theory on stuttering

My personal theory on stuttering Hello people! Some of you may or may not be spiritual, which isn’t really important but this theory kind of mentions it. I assume most of you have heard about terms...

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commentr/StutterMar 31, 2024
7 points

You're not alone. For myself, that feeling comes and goes. It's like the weather. This biggest obstacle that I face isn't my stammer but how I deal with having a stammer. To use the weather analogy, n...

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commentr/StutterMar 30, 2024
1 points

My summary (of your [next ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xYm-HaQpIXc&ab_channel=JM)video #3): * 2:20: do positive affirmations (as if you already are): I'm already fluent. This puts me in a recept...

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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2024
2 points

You're right. Its how we're programmed but its not impossible. You dont need anyones approval, you're your own person. You need to disconnect yourself from this world and its "feelings". You need to b...

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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2024
1 points

It is because you dont expect to stutter when you are alone, and then your fear of talking does not cause you to stutter. You should practice this «idgaf» attitude you have when talking alone in the o...

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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2024
-2 points

i ageee with u, confidence is extra big key factor for me to stutter less...

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commentr/StutterMar 25, 2024
-8 points

When I stutter I get everyones attention. People come up and ask questions. It might be about your energy and how your perceived as a person. Maybe you need to take a step back and reevaluate how you ...

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commentr/StutterMar 25, 2024
-14 points

Thats a you problem. Having a stutter doesnt give you an excuse to find every little thing wrong with the world. They ignore you cause of YOU. Not your stutter. You need to gain some self confidence a...

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commentr/StutterMar 25, 2024
5 points

Just you and your mind. The fact that there isn't any engagement on your post indicates that we're all on our own at the end of the day. Find a way to work **through** the hell that stuttering brin...

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commentr/StutterMar 24, 2024
5 points

Thanks for sharing! Beautiful talk. It´s amazing how many people who have overcome stuttering escentialy talk about the same thing; To change our false beliefs; learn to express and grow emotionally...

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commentr/StutterMar 23, 2024
2 points

>"What do you mean by this? Are you saying you should push through blocks? Or are you saying one should employ some kind of block modification technique? Cause the former isn't a viable option since i...

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commentr/StutterMar 23, 2024
1 points

Thank you for your reply! I can resonate with much of what Brocklehurst (PhD) states, but my opinions diverge slightly when it comes to the VRT (variable release threshold) hypothesis. Namely, Brock...

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