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commentr/StutterJun 30, 2020
7 points

Good luck! Remember that it's not about HOW you say it, but about saying it with CONFIDENCE. I wish you the best....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
postr/StutterJun 30, 2020
11 points

Exhausted

Exhausted I'm done with trying. I'm done with all the struggling I've to experience in order to say a few words, sometimes ending up with different words even if I wanted to say something else. I rea...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2020
7 points

Good luck ! Dont think too much about your stutter, just focus on the money !...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2020
1 points

If you’re going to include it, be able to talk about it and how it will affect your performance. If you don’t include it, be able to talk about it and how it will affect your performance. Make your st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2020
1 points

I stutter a lot when I speak in second language. In my first language, it’s easier for me to substitute a word with its synonym to avoid being blocked. I guess it’s harder for me to find right substi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & Weight
postr/StutterJun 29, 2020
42 points

I think my stutter is a confidence problem

I think my stutter is a confidence problem I posted on here before but I have a different question ab my stutter. My stutter is only usually the first word of the sentence. Everything after this is f...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2020
5 points

Your Resume is going to go through an algorithm first before even getting to a human mostly likely since it was on a website. If you don't get an interview, I truly doubt it was because of you mentio...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2020
0 points

In my opinion it hurt more not putting it in. I was accepted by alot of places for interviews when I didn't put it in and instead said when I got into the interview. When I put it in I got less inte...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJun 29, 2020
8 points

will it hurt my chances of getting a job if i state on my resume i stutter ?

will it hurt my chances of getting a job if i state on my resume i stutter ? [deleted]...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2020
1 points

I think being afraid to speak is a phase anyone who stutter have been through. You need to understand that if you someone has in issue with it it’s their fault not yours. For me, to get over that fear...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionValidation & EmpathyVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
postr/StutterJun 29, 2020
2 points

Im affraid to accept some "job" opportunity bc of phone calls

Im affraid to accept some "job" opportunity bc of phone calls Hello, I have a chance to accept some voluntery work, which can have big impact on my career later (some very good references). This job i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2020
16 points

You don't have to live with that pain. You have to live with the stutter, but there are people who will and who wish to help you. Getting in to see a therapist is hard - When I was at my worst times...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionValidation & EmpathyHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2020
3 points

It's common in pws to not be able to say their name. I have trouble with it too and I sometimes just say a different name. I just wish there would just be a cure already...

Anticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & Professional
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionCure Claims / Alt-Treats
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2020
1 points

I'm the exact opposite, English is my first language, Chinese is my second. I can get by in English, but people think I'm shit at Chinese because I can never get the words out and always downplay my ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2020
5 points

You are not your stutter! You said that you were fluent during therapy, which is important. If we give up trying then we forfeit our tenacity and strength in overcoming hardships. Life is really real...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2020
1 points

Same for me. I speak 3 Languages. One is my mother tongue, another I have an advanced level of, and the third you can say beginner/intermediate.For me, the amount of stuttering is related a lot to the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & WeightQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2020
1 points

I have also tried a lot, but unfortunately I have never had resounding success. I don't stutter very badly, but there are still situations where it is very annoying, depressing and the symptoms are b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCommunity & Support
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionSituational Variability+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2020
1 points

You shouldn't embrace your stuter. Accept that you're stutter and work on fixing it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2020
7 points

Yeah I feel you bro. I’ve had this stutter for 8 years and therapy didn’t help. My speech pathologist told me I was extremely fluent when I spoke but as soon as I left it came back. I try to use a who...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2020
1 points

Hi! I’ve been a server many times, I have a fairly bad stutter, and as long as you are charming, competent and hard working, it’s not a problem and I don’t tell them. They figure it out on their own, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others