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commentr/StutterMay 23, 2017
1 points

Guilty....guilty for what?? You have nothing to feel guilty about. Nothing! If any of what I said was a little bit helpful, I am very glad. I realize it's a huge leap coming from where you are. ...

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commentr/StutterMay 23, 2017
2 points

We are extremely similar! I made a post about this a few months ago, though I feel a lot more uncomfortable than mad. Like other people say, it's projection; it's what oyu think about yourself project...

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commentr/StutterMay 23, 2017
3 points

This 100% - and also OP, no - you're not the only one. I have gotten over this though. It began as anger, then morphed into pain, and then when I accepted my stutter - I stopped feeling all those thin...

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commentr/StutterMay 21, 2017
4 points

1. Don't ever give a damn about other people laughing at you for any reason. Remember, you weren't given an option to choose whether to stutter or not. So, don't let anyone let you down on this matter...

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commentr/StutterMay 18, 2017
1 points

I had a similar experience. In elementary school it would usually happen for a couple weeks at the beginning of the year before teachers caught on. Also kids would usually make a comment during their ...

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commentr/StutterMay 18, 2017
1 points

Now I'm imagining ordering coffee in an exaggerated pet voice. *Yes I would like a coffee! Yes I would!* I'm certainly not perfect now, but I'm a lot better than I used to be. What's helped me is...

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commentr/StutterMay 18, 2017
2 points

I mean let's be brutally honest; who wants to see someone stutter on screen for 90 minutes? I think it's encouraging for anyone famous to "admit" to dealing with human obstacles, no matter if it's act...

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commentr/StutterMay 15, 2017
1 points

Yes, well, this is somewhat an East/West divide, the huge cultural difference between conformity and individualism. Never that black and white, of course. And there are good and bad things about eac...

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postr/StutterMay 15, 2017
7 points

Does this happen to anyone else?

Does this happen to anyone else? Ok, so I have stuttered for as long as I can remember. Even though I do still stutter, 1) it's not nearly as bad as it was when I was a kid, and 2) I've conditioned m...

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commentr/StutterMay 15, 2017
1 points

Thanks for taking your time to write that detailed reply, I find it really informative. It is interesting how americans take pride in their individualism, while here in Indonesia, the word 'individua...

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commentr/StutterMay 15, 2017
1 points

Yes, yes, you described it from your point of view. For *you* it is a constant anxiety, a weight, a fear. I'm sure it is for others as well. Even in an "outgoing" country, not everyone can be outgo...

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commentr/StutterMay 14, 2017
8 points

I'm 30 now & have an 8 year old son. Just like you, I always worried that he would stutter as well & it scared the hell out of me. I always thought that was the last thing I would want for him...

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commentr/StutterMay 12, 2017
3 points

I'm young but I work as a finance admin assistant doing filing and sorting for a business's finance department. Every time I go to work I say "Good morning, how are you?" and make sure I have a small ...

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commentr/StutterMay 12, 2017
2 points

I do quite frequently. Sometimes it's really the only way I can speak. I'm often complimented for my large vocabulary. No one really knows it's a defensive mechanism. I don't mind stuttering as much a...

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commentr/StutterMay 12, 2017
4 points

I used to word swap all the time but I felt so dumb. So lately I've just said fuck it and let people wait. They know I stutter, so a small little stutter is the same as a long one....

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commentr/StutterMay 12, 2017
7 points

It certainly does, all day every day. It was very hard and nerve-wracking at first, but also the trial by fire I needed to accept and get over my stutter. No one treats me any differently and I'm just...

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commentr/StutterMay 9, 2017
2 points

For me it's because I don't feel pressure to be anything with her other than myself. I don't have to worry about her liking me. ...

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commentr/StutterMay 8, 2017
1 points

As a uni lecturer, I give at least one lecture to 50+ students every week. Let me tell you this, what you have to do is go in there with a mindset of "If I stutter, I stutter. If I don't, that's great...

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commentr/StutterMay 6, 2017
3 points

Speech buffer. I know it's probably unkind to some people but I just can't take my own stutter serious anymore. Life's short enjoy it listen to vinyl it sounds better. ...

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commentr/StutterMay 6, 2017
4 points

I used to feel like that and still do sometimes. Now I preface my job interviews with the fact that I stutter and most of the times the interviewer is cool with it. If you stutter just pretend like it...

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