Search

commentr/StutterApr 3, 2020
1 points

Thanks appreciate it, definitely going to give this a go I think! I think this will help me tackle the nervousness element and to practice speaking. Cheers...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2020
4 points

>I still refused to speak and I can’t tell what’s stopping me exactly I think you've indicated the reasons why yourself: >1. I can’t stand the sound of my own voice or the thought that others ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2020
1 points

Just in the sound of your voice, everybody dislikes the sound of their own voice, stutterer or not. Your negative thoughts are completely normal and I can guarantee you that people listening to you a...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterApr 2, 2020
12 points

Advancing in Career and College but need to face public speaking...eventually

Advancing in Career and College but need to face public speaking...eventually Hi guys, So I \[20M\] have been a moderate stutter since at least 12 (earliest memory of it). I have had some very embar...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more
postr/StutterApr 1, 2020
6 points

Stuttering in the word “Do”

Stuttering in the word “Do” I always stutter on the word “do” and it’s really annoying. Whenever I’m trying to socialize with people I want to ask them a question like “do you [blank]” but I can’t get...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2020
1 points

What is troubling is when the stuttering community downplays this fascinating truism. Some write this off as "lucky fluency" or that it "doesn't count." I could 'pretend call' someone with 100% flu...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/FlightTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2020
1 points

That is what I’m literally about to go to school to find out. Why the fuck I can be a preacher to myself but then I see a human and my speech says fuck you...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2020
1 points

I know you don’t want to give medical advise but I’m just curious to see what medication you choose to prescribe to your patients for SAD and GAD. I find Paxil too sedating and I’m on lexapro but I do...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentHarmful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2020
7 points

That's what stuttering is, it happens with every stutter, it's all about psychological differences social differences make and how it affects speech...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2020
2 points

I had something similar happen to me after I broke up a couple months ago. I had an interview 3 days later and it was probably the worst thing I'd ever gone through. For me at least, the break up af...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2020
2 points

Yeah, you're right. I guess that in the moment, it feels like every speech block you experience is being judged or whatever by them even though from an outsider's perspective, it might be much less se...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMar 30, 2020
2 points

I stutter around 15% of the time

I stutter around 15% of the time How can I bring this down to 5% because I look dumb in social situations. My father stutters around 30% of the time, I think I inherited from him or this could just be...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesGenetic & Family FactorsAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2020
1 points

I totally get what you mean. That's the root of a lot of anxiety problems. Social anxiety is caused because of the fear of being judged....and people think their self worth is at stake because they ba...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2020
1 points

Well of course we have more responsibilities. But it wasn't just that which changed. It was my attitude which also changed (becoming a perfectionist). Here's another example that has nothing to do wi...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMar 29, 2020
13 points

Uncomfortable Interview Reflections

Uncomfortable Interview Reflections Hey everyone! Hope quarantine is treating you well. I've scrolled through this reddit page in the past whenever I'm feeling low, but this is the first time I've act...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2020
5 points

>I think becoming serious about life has made me put tremendous pressure on myself and that's the reason why my speech impediment has become bad. Let's remind ourselves here of that famous adage o...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMar 29, 2020
6 points

How Big Of A Role Does Perception Play In Your Stutter?

How Big Of A Role Does Perception Play In Your Stutter? Looking to hear other people's experiences and stories about this. How much of a role does your own perception of life itself play a role in y...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2020
1 points

I've recently started seeing a speech therapist here in Sweden as my stutter have become a lot worse lately. I went there not sure it would do anything for me, but when I really listened to what she t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2020
2 points

I totally agree with you that the fear of stuttering greatly contributes to a stutter itself. Being confident (and a fearlessness in what people will think if I stutter) can help reduce stuttering, i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterMar 28, 2020
20 points

A breakthrough...

A breakthrough... Whilst practicing various techniques today, I find one that helps more than any other I’ve tried during my 20 years on this planet. Change the pitch of your voice to be lower (just ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftFluency TechniquesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more