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commentr/StutterOct 16, 2020
3 points

I live in India and mental health is a joke here. It's like it does not exist. Im not taking any medication but my bp has been normal since then and I make sure to avoid situations like these. This...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2020
3 points

That's really scary. Since your dad's a doctor, did you ask him about any kind of anxiety medications that you can take? High blood pressure is really dangerous. We also have a device for measuring bp...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2020
3 points

Ya I am. The interview and stuff for the MBA all happened online and I stuttered but I can still get through one on one interviews and stuff now. (I couldn't a few years ago) I have online classe...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2020
3 points

TRUEEEE , my uni presentation went hell , I get these sudden anxiousness and the fact I had to on my camera , and acknowledged that my classmate and lecturer saw me while I present just make it worse...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2020
7 points

Hmm...nice question....For bullying i kept to myself in high school so people won't notice that i stutter and For dating I am 24F and never dated anyone and the main reason is i don't know if other pe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2020
2 points

Worse, A LOT worse - i had one a week ago and completely messed up despite all the preparation. The interviewers seemed emphatic but... of course I didn't make it to the next round. Typical really - ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringPreparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterOct 15, 2020
35 points

Bullying, stuttering and dating

Bullying, stuttering and dating Im 18M, never been on a single date in my life. Was bullied through school. Have a stutter (try to hide it every now and then) and am very socially awkward around women...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingDating & RomanceShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterOct 15, 2020
6 points

Is your fluency worse during Zoom interviews?

Is your fluency worse during Zoom interviews? I have some very important Zoom interviews coming up and I'm nervous about them :/ I'm a covert stutterer but the anxiety of these Zoom interviews is brin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2020
2 points

It was so hard and I tried for months!! In my interview I always puked because I was so afraid of stammering through everything and bombing it but somehow I got it. I got through the hardest part of i...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2020
2 points

It depends on the person. I just finished a year long speech therapy course where I had 1 meeting a week with a speech therapist. Even though I saw improvement, it bothered me throughout the process h...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapyTherapy ExperiencesPositive Therapy Techniques+1 more
postr/StutterOct 14, 2020
85 points

Guys!!! First day at my new job and it went a lot better than I thought

Guys!!! First day at my new job and it went a lot better than I thought I woke up so terrified of messing up and stuttering over my words when talking to customers. It was my first day and I was trai...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hope & MotivationEmployment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2020
1 points

Expanding on this- the pain you feel doesn’t and has never come from a stutter itself, has it? Or does it come at night when you replay your day and think of all the opportunities you wanted to say wh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightPropositionality & Weight+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2020
5 points

I wanted my first post on reddit to be a separat post, but after reading this i just have to reply... I can relate to what the Threat creator written and eliquently described 90%... This is exactly ho...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2020
3 points

Jeeeze my man. From what you write, it seems like you're carryinng a ton of mental baggage. Maybe a psychologist could help you lighten the load? Stuttering sucks, but as far as I know, there's no fix...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2020
5 points

Hi! Thanks so much for sharing this with all of us. I can appreciate that it took a lot of emotional energy to write. It struck a nerve with me, and I wondered if we could talk about it for a minute h...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2020
1 points

Well as a guy above me already said it. Dont avoid socialisation and interactions. Sooner or later you will be forced to go to the post office or the drug store or some place with dead silence and lon...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2020
1 points

When i talk to myself i often stop at words i usually stutter at ans then i remember"Wtf dude you can say it now" and i just say it. I tried the same mentality in front of people but it didnt work(i p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2020
3 points

The thing is quitting this job wouldn’t harm me financially but staying and the idea of waking up every morning and going to work in fear is dreadful to me. I usually manage my stutter well but I have...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2020
1 points

I definitely think I’m inadvertently making it worse by having noticed it. It’s been progressively getting worse over the e last couple of weeks. I’m seeing a therapist so I’m hoping that once I deal ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringTrauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2020
2 points

Thanks for asking, it really means a lot. Personally, it helps me when the other person just acts normal I guess. Don't be alarmed or try to finish sentences for them, I know it seems helpful but it'...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social JudgmentListener Reactions