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commentr/StutterNov 19, 2020
1 points

Yep. When i’m anxious, my stutter worsen x20. Right now im in a stressful period in my life and i can’t say a sentence without blocking for 10 seconds....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2020
1 points

Bro i can relate to this so hard its crazy, if im around my guy friends im just myself etc. When i crush on a girl n try to talk to her i always think what i should say idk why....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2020
1 points

That's a fair point. Debate requires a lot of concentration and quick thinking, both of which are very difficult when our minds are pre-occupied with a stutter. To be honest, I wouldn't consider mysel...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2020
1 points

Maybe but I do not believe so. Whenever I talk I focus on the different pitches in my voice the speed at which I’m talking and which words I can and can’t say which helps with my stutter and even whil...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2020
1 points

Can I ask a question? Is it anxiety when you want minimal conversation between you and a worker (let's say a cashier) because you know you're going to stutter? Because that happens to me a lot...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2020
2 points

Oh my god, this happened to me during online school and it pisses me off so much. Do your meetings not allow you to type or have a chat section?...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2020
2 points

Yes! I do the exact same thing! I put my phone on my desk on speakerphone and talk to the person's LinkedIn picture. Probably looks goofy but it usually helps!...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2020
1 points

If it's a voice call over Zoom, then yes! But if it's a video chat, then I just look at the other person's video. Like u/HumptyDumptyFellHard, I personally find that video calls are much better than ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2020
6 points

For some reason, I stutter WAY more when I talk one the phone. When I have Zoom calls, I am more relaxed and don’t stutter as much. Maybe it’s because when I’m on the phone, my voice is the point of f...

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Hiding & ConcealmentFeared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2020
4 points

Whenever relatives would come and visit my mum (who I live with) I’d keep my interaction with them very brief and I have no idea what they thought about that as I don’t discuss my stammer with my fami...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2020
1 points

I am getting through the day terribly,completely abdicating from speaking/phone calls escalate my stutter.I have gone to therapy and the conclusion wasnt something i wasnt aware of-i have an innate ab...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical TensionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2020
3 points

I've been on Prozac before, and I noticed my stutter was quite improved, probably because of the less self consciousness I had. There are studies out there though that uncovered an increase in stutter...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Helpful Med OutcomesAnticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2020
1 points

How should anyone approach anyone else for whatever reason with whatever special circumstances that may or may not apply? Dunno. What I do know - I think - is that meeting other people is subject to...

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commentr/StutterNov 17, 2020
1 points

I completely understand. I have such a terrible time with my name. To me it’s the most frustrating thing. It molds how I live my life and what I can do/can’t do. It’s exhausting. My fiancé introduces ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & NamesQuality of Life+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2020
2 points

Once again, your response means so much to me and really hits home. I see what you’re saying. It’s also a self-acceptance thing. I feel like my stutter stems from anxiety but also from my lack of self...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterNov 17, 2020
37 points

How should I approach I girl I’m interested in with a stutter?

How should I approach I girl I’m interested in with a stutter? So my stutter is most Anxiety driven and I feel like it would be extremely hard to get a partner. Any tips?...

Social & RelationshipsCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2020
2 points

Well mine is affected by anxiety and stress. If one feeling like I'm in shape and feeling good. I'm more confident which means less stress which means I stutter less because I'm less anxious...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/FlightSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2020
6 points

oh man where do i even start. I realized this in college sometime after turning 21. Dont drink as much since i graduated, but like a previous comment said, i feel like personally a lot of my stutter i...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterNov 16, 2020
2 points

First time posting— looking for advice

First time posting— looking for advice Hi everyone! So I’m posting for my first time. I cannot say my name and it is holding me back so much in life... In so many ways. I have crippling anxiety and I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2020
2 points

>We just had a Zoom call and i didnt speak in the whole 2 hours just because I was anxious **and thought that since i didnt speak in the beginning, it would be weird to speak now and that everyone ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking