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postr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
37 points

My stutter is ruining me

My stutter is ruining me I feel like venting a little bit, i have the type of stutter where i get blocks on certain words, i litterally can not say the sound of the word without sounding super stupid....

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
postr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
5 points

Recent mental strain of my stutter

Recent mental strain of my stutter I’m not fully sure why but very recently (only the last couple-few months) my stutter has been on my mind and taunting me for large amounts of my day a lot more than...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencySadness & Hopelessness
postr/StutterFeb 9, 2025
30 points

“Just spit it out”

“Just spit it out” This is the most insulting thing I’ve ever heard, from my own family, no less. I’m in my late 30s and just started struggling with getting words out. By the time I can regain my com...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterFeb 9, 2025
6 points

Mini-vent and Plea for Help!

Mini-vent and Plea for Help! Hi y'all. I'm a 17-year-old male and I suffer from a stutter. I've had one for as long as I can remember. Now, I don't think my stutter is as bad as others, not even close...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
postr/StutterFeb 9, 2025
11 points

Anticipation & Fear

Anticipation & Fear Hi! I’m a 22F who stutters. I started stuttering whenever I was 10. I’ll never ever forget the day. I was in English class and we were doing popcorn reading. At the time I loved to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
postr/StutterFeb 8, 2025
18 points

Sitting here at a family party

Sitting here at a family party This condition sucks so bad, i want to be social and talk to family that i havent seen in awhile and i just cant. They probably think im stuck up cause im just sitting h...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerFriendships & BelongingHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2025
1 points

It’s a shame you feel that way. I know how shit and isolating it can be having a stutter but theres so much we can do to still live a happy and fulfilling life. For me one of the main things to keep i...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Mindset shiftHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2025
6 points

Yes, it interferes with normal life and sometimes it greatly hinders your ability to function at your level because it holds you back....

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Quality of LifeHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2025
5 points

Virtually in the same soup of loneliness... the fear of coming across as a creep and lacking confidence always eats at me when I see someone attractive. Been single for almost 4yrs now and with each ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2025
3 points

Appreciate your kind words! Looking back on it there were definitely better steps I could have taken, but at least I have built a foundation for myself, instead of never taking action in the first pla...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationDating & RomanceHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2025
2 points

It's mad how much our environment really changes out mental states. Since going away I now look at comfort at the enemy. When you're comfortable you don't strive for change, and change is what (imo) w...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2025
2 points

I’m not OP, but what you said about the context of your stutter and insecurity hit home. I’ve been through that—even when I went to HCRI treatment years ago, I was 100% fluent after two weeks there. T...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterFeb 7, 2025
61 points

I finally approached someone I found attractive.

I finally approached someone I found attractive. After 25 years of social anxiety, self doubt, a social inferiority complex, and overall emotional trauma, I finally did it. I won the battle but am sti...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyMindset shift+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 7, 2025
14 points

Job interviews are my biggest struggle. How do I manage?

Job interviews are my biggest struggle. How do I manage? So I’ve been without a job for months, I NEED this job. I have the qualifications, I look good on paper. I know I will be a great employee. But...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2025
6 points

Id say you're avoiding the responsibility because, subconsciously, you know that taking responsibility means you still might fail and not have your stutter to blame. A fear of failure is common amongs...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
postr/StutterFeb 6, 2025
8 points

I need a realistic wake up call

I need a realistic wake up call So... I've never actually posted anything on here but I've been lurking a lot on this subreddit. I don't even know how to write posts on Reddit in a comprehensible man...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Helplessness & AgencySadness & HopelessnessOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 6, 2025
0 points

coworker has unbearable stutter

coworker has unbearable stutter i empathize with people who have mental or neurological disorders that are not completely in their control. however, one of my coworkers has an unbearable stutter. the...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterFeb 5, 2025
2 points

Has anybody ever been to AIS? If so, how'd it go? Additionally, I have career fair Tuesday (and am applying to internships) and I'm nervous as hell

Has anybody ever been to AIS? If so, how'd it go? Additionally, I have career fair Tuesday (and am applying to internships) and I'm nervous as hell Hello, I start at AIS next week, I have my consulta...

Therapy & ProfessionalSchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapyEmployment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2025
2 points

I don't have a fear of social rejection, I know that every situation in which I will make an attempt to talk, I actually WILL be socially accepted, maybe I'll even make new friends, what stops me it's...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterFeb 5, 2025
11 points

As a stutterer how do you try to gain friends?

As a stutterer how do you try to gain friends? I'm 17(M) and never had many friends because of my severe stammering, I can't socialize that much, and lately, I have been feeling rather lonely that I d...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Friendships & BelongingSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency