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commentr/StutterDec 5, 2021
2 points

My best advice is let go of wanting control. Work on being confident in your stutter instead of always working around it. The more i try to work on my stutter with tools ive learned, the more i tend ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 4, 2021
6 points

Don’t be so hard on yourself. If you stutter you stutter. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with that at all. It sounds like you’re your own biggest critic regarding this. Whatever happens is going to...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2021
2 points

It adds character. Just don’t hold back. It’s only a big deal if you make it a big deal. If your coworkers don’t think it bother you then to won’t bother them. Good luck...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2021
2 points

They didn't make a mistake hiring you. If they hired you fully knowing, you're clearly perfectly qualified for the role regardless of your speech. Think about how qualified you are for the role vs a...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2021
1 points

There truly are people that recover to the point that they don’t have a single block for decades, not avoid words, or even use technique. John Harrison is one....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2021
2 points

Thanks for the inspiration! I define fluency as no longer holding back what we think, feel and say. So in other words, fluency as a mindset, not necessarily as physical blocks. But they are often rela...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2021
11 points

On my 40th birthday, I named mine "Oscar- the grouch". He would pop up 24/7 with the most hateful, negative and egregious remarks. He controlled my life for 35 years until I gave him a name and the...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2021
1 points

Do what makes you happy. I was told growing up that I was worthless and I envisioned a future of isolation and depression. When you are doing a job that you were told you couldn't do and are excell...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2021
0 points

Therapy works temporarily for 6 months , stuttering is like a cancer .It comes back vigorously. No treatment whatsoever. You need to relax ,get away from toxic environment, need the constant encourage...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2021
1 points

And there's nothing wrong with that! I've learned to accept my stutter. I vibe with it 😌...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2021
1 points

Surround yourself with people who accept you regardless of your stutter to help build confidence. I find that it helps to let your listener know so they know you just need alittle bit more time. You...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2021
6 points

That's great if it does but that's not really what professional speech therapists would 100% strive for in their clients. They would clarify from the start that these speech techniques may not work bu...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & Disability
Positive Therapy TechniquesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2021
9 points

My 2 cents: I've had 20 years of speech therapy and I went from 0% fluency to 80% (through very hard work and practice). What I learned (and this truly changed my life) is that I constantly worrie...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2021
10 points

Speech therapists can't cure or fix stuttering, sorry for the disappointment. I was like this too when I first got speech therapy but speech therapists can give you an alternative solution and that's ...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & Disability
Seeking TherapyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2021
1 points

Ask yourself if you would hate or judge other people for what you hate or judge yourself for. If not, then don’t allow yourself to operate from a double standard anymore. Tell your brain as a mantra...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2021
1 points

Since this has became a feared word and has a lot of fear connected to the word, learning to lessen the fear is key. A quick tip I can give you is to stutter on purpose when you say that word. Becau...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2021
1 points

Hey, it went really well. They were a great interview and while they did occasionally stutter it certainly didn't affect their demeanor or mask their knowledge or etc. We took the general advice and d...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2021
5 points

Gotta be less insecure about the speech. Life goes on, laugh at the jokes. Unless they are directed and verbally towards you....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2021
0 points

I am a woman who stutters. As others have noted, there’s lots of us, but we’re a minority within a minority. Women who stutter who own it and take up their space are Badass. Here’s a whole treasure t...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2021
39 points

If that person is a stutterer then big +1 for posting it on Facebook and taking the reactions like a pro...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PridePublic Awareness / Media