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commentr/StutterDec 26, 2022
3 points

I agree completely, my 2 cents is to: 1. always expect anticipatory anxiety and learn to stay calm while feeling this anxiety 2. don't ignore or avoid the anxiety because if you don't feel it anymore,...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2022
1 points

Stuttering is social anxiety. Social anxiety is not stuttering. I didn’t clarify because this distinction should be patently obvious. There is no one here who thinks that everyone with SA has a di...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2022
17 points

Stuttering is a funny thing. The more you try to avoid it, the more it comes. The more you want to impress someone, the more it comes. The more you want to prove yourself, the more it comes. The mor...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & PrideMindset shift
postr/StutterDec 25, 2022
67 points

Desensitizing myself to the fear of being judged has been the single most important thing I've done overcome stuttering

Desensitizing myself to the fear of being judged has been the single most important thing I've done overcome stuttering ...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2022
1 points

You must be around alot of girls and your looks must be on point for them to approach you...even then in my experience most girls won't approach even if they like a guy. But yeah if a girl likes you a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2022
1 points

Mainly being more fluently consists of getting used to your own skin...So mainly getting used to social interactions and speech therapy and gaining confidence by maybe doing a hobby but for any PWS so...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2022
1 points

u got me a little bit wrong, if i want to pick up a girl i doing that without a problem, and i have so much confidence that im not the one approaching to them they approch to me. But the small things...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2022
1 points

It's the opposite for me. Especially with weightlifting - it makes me really tense, anxious, nervous and it just makes speaking much harder (more blocks etc). It feels like any more demanding physical...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentEnergy & Biological Rhythms
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2022
0 points

Dysfluency being a symptom of social anxiety which affects some socially anxious people - that I agree with, and understanding that will help you deal with the anxiety along with dysfluency. But stu...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2022
8 points

Yes everything you just said I've experienced 100%...I try to take care of my looks so the girls that really liked me didn't care too much. But yeah it's very hard watching all your friends picking up...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2022
1 points

You're contradicting yourself when first you say stuttering is social anxiety, then you acknowledge that most people with social anxiety don't stutter. I completely agree with everything else you say...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2022
1 points

You 100% right, and I've gone through the same good & bad cycles through out my life. Iĺl be almost 100% fluent for a few months then fall back into a hole and be like 5% fluent with max anxiety f...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2022
2 points

I think that viewing it as a thing that needs to be cured is what is stopping us improving. We keep fighting it. For me the fear of blocking or stuttering is far worse than when it actually happens. B...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2022
1 points

My whole life. And yes I've been to a few pathologists when I was younger. I've done the practice and it didn't help much. I'll admit I've stopped over the past few years, but I think it doesn't work ...

Therapy & ProfessionalCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Therapy ExperiencesTrauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2022
1 points

Yes, most ppl w social anxiety do not stutter, but that proves nothing. PWS block bc of fear of remembering previous distressing talking situations. You block when ordering coffee bc of years of *no...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2022
4 points

Yes I have depression, anxiety and suicidal thoughts cause of my stuttering...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessAnxiety & Social JudgmentSuicidal Ideation & High Distress
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2022
1 points

They are not the same thing. Most people who have social anxiety don't stutter. For those of us who do stutter, anxiety certainly feeds stuttering but there are other factors at play....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2022
5 points

Blocks are worst , the awkward stare you get plus that sudden surge of anxiety because of that that just freezes you , i awkwardly nod my head and just move on...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 23, 2022
2 points

The hard blocks absolutely come from remembering previous speaking traumas. There’s no way PWS are all just randomly afraid of giving your name for appointments. The reason your name is the worst...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Experiential AssociationBlocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 23, 2022
4 points

Your diaphragm is directly impacted by anxiety. I’m fact, it’s called a valsalva maneuver, and it’s a common response to stress/panic. As someone who despised drivethrough for years, I was not remot...

Speech & StutteringCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Physical TensionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more