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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2025
1 points

You've unloaded a lot, and no doubt you have been through a lot. A lot of us have experienced PTSD and I get the sense that you have been through a lot of trauma. If you haven't done so, maybe explo...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalMindset shiftVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2025
1 points

Sounds weird but before I go to sleep, I would visualize my happy self with having no stutter at all and eventually, I just fall asleep. But I am glad that my stutter has taught me major empathy and...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2025
2 points

This is THE answer. In other words, your stuttering shouldn’t keep you from doing what you want. There are stuttering comedians, up on stages all the time....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2025
8 points

LOL I've had a similar realisation. I once listened to my own recording and OMFG did I always sound this bad? And my voice sounds so dumb too! Now I've come to accept myself as I am. I've tried ever...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideOverthinking & MonitoringMindset shift
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2025
1 points

It is indeed the incosistency nature of stuttering that make it impossible to accept it. I can understand some of the irregularities like when being emotional distress we may stutter more. Just like...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Cycles & RandomnessStress & Fight/FlightAvoidance & Substitution+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2025
2 points

This is a really great philosophy that has effected me throughout my stuttering journey, sales journey, and more! To put it into perspective with stuttering, from when I first looked within and faced...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2025
1 points

Thanks for the reply! I am sorry to learn of your condition. I generally do only healthy habits and because of the long period of time I have done them, the confidence boost has become permanent. F...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2025
2 points

Hi, apologize for just getting back with you. Been meaning to respond. So by passive I almost a question of asking ourself why do we need to DO something to feel good about ourself? If it’s doing th...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shiftOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2025
1 points

Interesting. I know people that stutter openly but it does not seems that their stutter diminish. Somehow they are feeding their stuttering on their attempt to accept it. The vicious circle you are t...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingMindset shift
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
3 points

I would say you should do the exchange. I got more confident in myself by forcing myself to talk (I studied abroad). And in new environment I know it is hard to introduce, get anxious. but people don...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAnticipating StutteringIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2025
2 points

Acceptance. It’s always going to be there. Yes it’s annoying. Yes it’s embarrassing. Nonetheless it’s apart of you. It makes you, you. I’m in my late 20s and that realization has taken me so long ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2025
2 points

Do not take anything that has any short term effect on hormones that affects confidence and fluency. Work on yourself, as complex as it is, try to workout whether your stutter is primarily induced by ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Mindset shiftMindfulness & BreathingAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2025
2 points

Not being afraid of stammering. It took me about 29 years, but i'm getting there. I think stopping it as something as embarrassing or shameful in my case was a breakthrough. I hope this helps :)...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2025
16 points

Focusing on self acceptance and anxiety reduction by relaxation techniques and exposure therapy. Just for me personally, the more I tried to focus on fixing the stutter the more self conscious I was,...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftMindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2025
3 points

I agree. The problem seems to be social anxiety and holding back. You can check my profile, I am trying to get to the same mental state without any substance....

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2025
2 points

*Long version:* Easy answer, but hard to do, is build your confidence up. The more confident you are, the more respect you're going to get. In turn that can make you not care about your stutter as muc...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2025
2 points

It’s self defeatist to preach for acceptance and grace towards myself and my stutter? Sorry I don’t want to spend my entire life chasing a version of myself that isn’t authentic. I have a stutter. ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
postr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
2 points

Duda On “Crisis Of Faith” And Thoughts Of Quitting Chess [How this compares to stuttering and how I got over the negativity associated with one more difficult time or another]

Duda On “Crisis Of Faith” And Thoughts Of Quitting Chess [How this compares to stuttering and how I got over the negativity associated with one more difficult time or another] ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
5 points

Hey There! I'm 21 so in a similar boat to you, age wise and can totally sympathise with you about all those social situations you were speaking about. I think for me what was most important was let...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
4 points

As a 40 year old who's been stuttering since 4 years old, let me tell you, stutter is not ruining you, you think it is, but it's actually a gift from God. I have a similar stutter pattern, there's a l...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+1 more