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commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
10 points

This is exactly it. I talk pretty much fine to my immediate family like my wife and two kids but, phone and video calls are pretty much a wreck for me....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
19 points

Video interviews and meetings are always tough for me too. Not sure why, but there's something about being on camera and being stared at that makes me a bit uneasy ......

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterApr 11, 2023
39 points

Had a very bad video interview today

Had a very bad video interview today Jus wanted vent somewhere, where people understand me. Everyone says just be calm they are just people. But it doesn't matter if I'm calm or not. I stutter regardl...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
5 points

Lol I kept it real with people on this subreddit and was attacked because people kept being optimistic to the point where it was kissing non stutterers ass. "Oh accept me for who I am", that's all bs...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
1 points

No negative effects for me so far. I rather think it helps my anxiety and therefore I don’t overthink and stutter less....

Meds & SubstancesEmotional Experience
Helpful Med OutcomesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
1 points

To me it was more about me bullying myself. With all the disorders I have I felt like a inferior black sheep and I also have a mild autism I did not know about until I turned 27 I misunderstood so muc...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterApr 11, 2023
8 points

Serious questions

Serious questions I understand that I need to 1000% accept my stutter and realize that it's ok to stutter, In order to make my speech more fluent. But all that accepting and optimism falls face flat o...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2023
2 points

In my personal experience my mental state dictated how well I could control my stutter. In my teenage years I was very confident and socialized often which resulted in me not stuttering very often if ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterApr 10, 2023
9 points

Answering phones

Answering phones Hi all, first time poster, long time stutterer (21m). I work in an office and am expected to answer the phone if nobody else can get to it. It has only happened twice since I started...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & NamesSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
1 points

I've NEVER dated but I don't think I'd have that problem. I just have this fear that I'm unlovable because I'm a freak. And I'm also terrified the only person dating me would be an insecure loser or s...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
2 points

That's one of my main reasons why I won't have kids. I will have social anxiety and be unable to parent. Toddlers have an attention span of 5sec how are they gonna listen to me and take me seriously...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentGenetic & Family Factors
postr/StutterApr 10, 2023
7 points

Was any of you passive aggressively bullied?

Was any of you passive aggressively bullied? I never was really bullied. But I always felt like I was an easy target. And people/friends would just out of nowhere say stupid/rude stuff to me that I d...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
2 points

Consider what it is that you're afraid of: people laughing, feeling embarrassed, making unusual gestures, etc. Talk about your fears, write about your fears, think about your fears. Don't ignore your ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentTrauma & Psychological
postr/StutterApr 10, 2023
7 points

Exposure therapy: looking for ideas for introducing myself

Exposure therapy: looking for ideas for introducing myself I am mostly fluent, but introducing me is my nightmare. It’s like gambling. Sometimes its perfect, even in front of 50 people, sometimes it’s...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
1 points

And what's the way to overcome that, i don't seem to stutter when I'm taking to myself or my pet but I get worse at times speaking to people i think it's mainly because of anxiety, any ways to prevent...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterApr 9, 2023
8 points

Please help me

Please help me I have been selected for the Orientation team and I have to interact with the new students. And when I tell my course name 'Programming' I stammer at that word and some other words too....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesFluency TechniquesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2023
1 points

I've never had a problem getting any girl I went after. Being timid does not mean you don't have confidence, it means you don't show confidence. Too much confidence comes off as cocky, and alot of wom...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2023
3 points

Hey OP i would personally prefer 1. Something I searched up that I feel like would help you alot is the “spotlight effect” which can help with social anxiety. And that basically means “We tend to thin...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2023
3 points

You don't need a way to overcome the stutter. You need a way to overcome your fear of stuttering....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2023
1 points

I have the same issue! I’m 27 and have gone my whole life saying my name fine, although I did have a small stutter I grew out of when I was little. Over the past year, I have developed a speech block ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking Therapy