I've NEVER dated but I don't think I'd have that problem. I just have this fear that I'm unlovable because I'm a freak. And I'm also terrified the only person dating me would be an insecure loser or someone who has a fetish with stutterers which sucks. It also makes me feel less feminine. Less hot, less everything. My ego doesn't let me just date out of desperation but I'm starting to feel very lonely, sad and that'd i will die a virgin. I'm almost 23 and have no sexual experience mainly because of the low self confidence and insecurity. It's just that I know I am a loser and I don't want to date. Loser, who would be the only sane person dating me and thatzy why my ego sayse NO.