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commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2021
2 points

I started to cry reading all of this. 34 here and stuttered all my life. Would never wish it on anyone. There is nothing you can do about it. I cant say anything these others havent said. Stutters now...

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commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2021
5 points

I am a dev too and this is literally my experience. I went through series of interviews where the interviewer told me they couldn’t understand me. It was difficult but overtime I learnt to speak a bit...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2021
5 points

I'm sorry this happened to you, I know how it feels. I'm a dev too, if you want you can msg me and we can connect on social media so I can widen your reach. If I know someone in your specialty, I woul...

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Employment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2021
1 points

What I mean by cycle was my speech getting better and worse on an occasional basis. Well, if it weren't for it, I would have less difficulty in finding a job, having a gf etc....

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commentr/StutterJan 31, 2021
3 points

Yes, I may be able to speak more confidently than in the past, but this progress hasn't helped at all as a 24-year old, broke and stutterer guy with no job and whose only occupation is graduate school...

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Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2021
1 points

My family was also like that, acting like my stammer is something to be swept under the rug and forgotten about, but what they don’t realise is that it’s an integral part of you and can’t just be “sol...

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Stigma & BullyingTrauma & PsychologicalEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2021
2 points

You have the exact right angle here, mom is wrong. It’s ok to stutter. The National Stuttering Association has a wealth of resources for people who stutter looking for a job, including practice inter...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideEmployment & CareerAdvice Offered
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2021
4 points

Wow, it sucks that they let you go because of your stutter i believe that the executive and the hr team are assholes and I'm glad that you're not working there anymore as they probably didn't see you ...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
Employment & CareerStigma & BullyingTherapy Experiences
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2021
2 points

Listen let’s stop the bs here. It’s is because of our stutter and it pisses me off!! I’m in a job for two years and I’m the least paid person in my roll and they give me reasons about stupid things bu...

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Employment & CareerStigma & BullyingStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2021
7 points

I don't have much to contribute, but I just want to say your story is inspiring; the fact that you have been able to be successful in life regardless of your stuttering. That sucks that you were fired...

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Personal StoriesEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJan 30, 2021
41 points

Is anyone else’s family critical or judgmental of them having a stutter? (Family/career related vent)

Is anyone else’s family critical or judgmental of them having a stutter? (Family/career related vent) This is a bit of a long vent, thanks for reading this if you do! I’ve had a stutter since I was l...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2021
2 points

Hard drugs and sex with prostitutes /s Honestly OP your best bet is to focus on the things you can control. For most of my childhood/time as a young adult I wanted to be a Navy SEAL and I knew my stu...

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Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2021
4 points

do you even have a stutter??? Is this what people see “stuttering”? What about people like me with blatant severe stutters that are denied friends jobs and respect? No amount of self confidence is g...

Causes & VariabilitySchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationEmployment & CareerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2021
1 points

From my opinion if you think he doesn't deserve the job because of his stutter that's too bad. I'm almost a 100% he chose the field he is in and wants to go full time because he thinks he can do it. A...

School & WorkCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2021
1 points

I believe It’s not how you say it, it’s the content of what you say. I have a stutter and have held top level, management positions in government and non government organisations. I have never been d...

Causes & VariabilitySchool & Work
Severity & FluctuationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2021
2 points

I feel you! I don’t stutter and am a speech therapist so that’s my perspective. I guess it depends on the severity of the stutter and the person. I know a speech therapist with a stutter and he’s grea...

Causes & VariabilitySchool & Work
Severity & FluctuationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2021
1 points

Just my idea, but realistically an outreach job requires effective communication. And that'd not really possible with a bad stutter. I stutter and I realize that I'm not suited for certain jobs. And t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2021
3 points

Is he qualified for the position or not? I’m sure he’s aware of his stutter and would pursue therapies if he wanted. The thing with stuttering is it’s not guaranteed speech therapy will make it better...

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Employment & CareerAdvice Requests
postr/StutterJan 29, 2021
3 points

Is there a way to talk to an employee about his stutter for professional development/promotion?

Is there a way to talk to an employee about his stutter for professional development/promotion? I have a part time employee with a mild stutter. He's been with us a year, he's a great worker, and I re...

School & Work
Employment & CareerPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2021
1 points

Nah, don't bother. You already have to deal with stuttering, you want to deal with potentially regretful career choices too? Adding more crap to your mental stress just worsens the stuttering too, so ...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social Judgment