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commentr/StutterDec 6, 2022
1 points

My stutter sculpted me into me. I would not trade all the years of pain, frustration, embarrassment and struggle if I had to surrender one moment of who I ended up being and continue to become. I feel...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2022
3 points

I have a pretty bad stutter and I've been w an amazing girl for 2 years now and and she finds it cute. The answer is there isn't anyone you have to go out of your way to try and stop stuttering for. ...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2022
3 points

I’ve only recently just started realizing that people might see it as endearing. I’ve always been treated really well by people in my circles/workplaces, but always thought it was because I was just a...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2022
4 points

By my senior year of high school. Everyone that was left at school knew I stuttered and didn't care so I used to pad out my English speeches with extra stuttering. The teacher wouldn't dare mark me do...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
School & Academic LifeAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2022
4 points

My king the most counterintuitive goal is to not stutter. It´s hard, but allow yourself to stutter. Speak slow, stutter on purpose, and realise you´re not responsible to speak fluid. You have a tire t...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 4, 2022
17 points

It's important to know that his stuttering wasn't / isn't typical childhood onset stuttering. If I'm remembering correctly, he said it was the result of physical trauma to his larynx (hit by a baseb...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 4, 2022
1 points

Fluency enhancing sound effective, but without the most important things, it will be a constant struggle. Those are to realize that every speaker has repetitions and you *need* to let ppl hear your r...

Identity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Acceptance & PrideRepetitions & ProlongationsPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterDec 4, 2022
2 points

Hey, march 1999 here! That was so nice written. Seems like you learned how to live with it! That is so awesome and I hope it stays that way. Stay safe, healthy and blessed!...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2022
3 points

I’m sorry you’re still struggling to accept it. I know it’s a shitty thing to have to deal with in life along with all the other struggles. Though you will find happiness once you learn to fully accep...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2022
1 points

I was about to drop, but after having conversations with my parents I think I'll continue. I stutter alot and because of that I missed many classes of CDC and now I regret it. The one advise, I woul...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2022
3 points

I am soooo happy to hear this result for you! Are you combining it with anything else? People here are ignoring this because the suggestion often comes from people who have no clue what they are tal...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2022
2 points

Happy birthday! Please please don’t think that your struggle was meaningless. Even if you are not where you want to be, everything you’ve done, everything you’ve been through has lead to this point, h...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2022
3 points

Im sorry you feel disappointed after reading your letter. Something like a stutter can be a lifelong struggle, and you can’t really grasp that as a ten year old. You don’t have to give up trying to fi...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2022
1 points

I absolutely struggled with it and then gave up. I embraced it as a character trait, but I don’t let it define me....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 30, 2022
3 points

I'm sorry that happened to you. One thing my therapist said was to feel your feet on the floor and that communicated to your brain that you aren't running away. It honestly seems to help me. When I am...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindfulness & BreathingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 30, 2022
3 points

That is great advice. Something I wish I knew at your age. We can all stutter on our own terms...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 29, 2022
4 points

You can't catch stuttering. If a little child growing up hears a parent stutter when they are learning to speak they may copy them, which is a good incentive to work on stopping stuttering. Not e...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterNov 29, 2022
1 points

I stuttered infrequently and still sometimes do, but my daughter has severe dysfluency. My tips are to love unconditionally your child. They will be fine and successful and the world is a better place...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 29, 2022
1 points

My mom stutters and out of me and my sister, im the one that got the stutter gene (I'm the baby) As long as you support your child and don't make them feel like shit, then you'll be good. It's been a...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 29, 2022
9 points

This is the right attitude to have. I felt similar thoughts as a teen. I'm now 42, a father to a college kid, and there was a time in my life I didn't think I'd be here. I know it is uncomfortable but...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & Motivation