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commentr/StutterAug 8, 2023
3 points

Sometimes I get so stuck I eventually quit and just say "oh fuck it". makes me and anyone around me laugh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHumor & Community ToneBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2023
1 points

I will go to college this year i am also afraid like again i have to start from zero ,tell my name to everyone and stuff ,and i stutter in that ,its tough to pronounce, i want every one know my name ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2023
1 points

Really don’t know if you can deaden yourself to not feel when people laugh at you for a condition you can’t really control. It sounds like you can mask your speech? I’ve never heard of someone saying ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2023
1 points

Yeah, I remember all those same triggers. Reading for the class, Asking questions in a seminar, and Talking while someone gives u their undivided attention was the worst. Keeping doing though. If u ha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2023
2 points

My experience was there was a lot of dishonesty with my stutter. Instead of approaching things head on, trying to avoid or conceal my stutter. That's why I didn't like the "fake stutter" idea. But if ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2023
3 points

Hi, he was being mean. He is also a jerk to other coworkers but they never say anything. They just react to it and I don't like when he does that. Why is the "fake stutter" a bad idea? It's not real...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterAug 7, 2023
48 points

Coworker made a joke about my stutter.

Coworker made a joke about my stutter. My stuttering consists on blocking. Sometimes I am unable to let a word out and I get stuck. I noticed that when I talk to my close family I do block but then I...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2023
1 points

I worked harder in college (eventually) because of my stutter. Over compensated, overachieved is the term, I think. It helped a lot. Be practical about your education. Unless you are absolutely passio...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringHelplessness & Agency+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2023
2 points

I mean it can happen on anything, but like you i find it happens the most on certain letters. The big ones for me are m and n sounds, w sounds, and l sounds. That’s all i can think of right now but pr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2023
3 points

My answer doesn't jive with your poll. I find that it helps me see the blocks coming. So I'm better able to maneuver around them (word substitution, etc.)....

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Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2023
3 points

Yes. this was the exact case with me. Went through about 2 years of speech therapy across many different therapists. None of them helped. What did help was being comfortable. I’m 16 and still have a s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2023
2 points

I know it sounds really sus. I know it sounds like I am making light of the situation but believe me, I know how it feels to be trapped because of this handicap. I would say just try speaking in publi...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2023
2 points

I haven’t notice any improvements by these 2 years, the techniques as we know are for speaking in an easier way, each technique has its own effects, for example breathing, opening the vocal cords, len...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2023
1 points

So you’re telling me I could’ve ended my stutter if I just faced my fear of public speaking:/?! Jokes aside, good for you for facing your fear and was able to get rid of your stutter. I’ve literally s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2023
2 points

Same I don't stutter when I am alone but when talk to someone I stutter. Are you able to control it anyhow? I saw it, but I don't know how to slow down my thoughts lol, I will try though. Any other ti...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational VariabilityAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2023
3 points

Like, don't plan extensively or sit and think about it. Like what I did was whenever I had the urge to speak and that nervousness or the thought came in, I just stopped and thought once what I had to ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2023
3 points

You will get there. it's like riding a bike. It will be stumbly and tough at the beginning after that, once u catch speed, you forget about the worry to balance, you just ride/ start speaking without ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2023
3 points

This is very true for some of us. I had it real bad ever since i remember until around 26 years old. I would get stuck on all the letters, mostly sss, fff and repeat like t t t, k k k. It was horrible...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2023
3 points

Really interesting post. I can empathise with you. I’m 43, from the UK, have had a mild stammer all my life and have struggled over the years with something like what you describe: unable to finish se...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2023
7 points

I stuttered on every other line. I remember I once got stuck mid-sentence while reading for the class on the word fridge and I was just saying " F FF FFF", So basically yeah I got bullied pretty bad....

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Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more