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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2023
2 points

Everyone will have their own thoughts on those two questions, but for me; 1. No. I would avoid acknowledging the stutter at all. I have a stutter but it was really bad as a child but as I grew older ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityParent & Caregiver
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational VariabilitySeverity & Fluctuation+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 17, 2023
3 points

Same. I never used to stutter when I'm alone but off late, I don't get enough practice talking to people unlike before. So, the only talking I ever do is stuttering the few times I talk to people, an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionOnset & Life-Stage Changes
commentr/StutterAug 17, 2023
3 points

Oh. My. God. Reading parts of a text from a book is my biggest fear. I'm able to speak quite well face to face (with only one other person) but reading something from a book or flyer etc. still comple...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 17, 2023
8 points

This is one of the most relatable aspects of stuttering, the seemingly random variability and the frustration that comes with that. I certainly notice an increase in my stuttering frequency when I’m s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightPropositionality & Weight+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 17, 2023
1 points

A "coward" is not something you "are" imo, social akwardness is part of the stuttering package, but its mostly just a vicious cycle that makes your stutter worse > makes you more anxious to speak &...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2023
3 points

Thanks for the reply! I’m working on not hiding my stutter, cause when I let it be it feels so freeing. I just can’t stay ahold of that confidence and end up going back to hiding it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2023
2 points

I’d say take the job. Many / most jobs are given out because ‘somebody knows somebody.’ It’s largely the way the world works — relationships. Having a stutter you’re going to have to learn how to de...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2023
2 points

It's difficult but you have to bristle up to that if it does happen. I too knit up future scenarios so I know what kind of bs to expect. This can turn into a chip on your shoulder and can limit you ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & CareerPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2023
2 points

This is true, because I’ve gone a year without stuttering when I simply.. forgot that I’m a stutterer. It came back when people started complimenting me/ reminding me of my former speech impediment. O...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2023
14 points

This is a better scenario than you make it out to be. At least in this environment people still respect your last name and maybe, because of that, they might be less willing to go full ham on you. It’...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2023
2 points

I met my wife on tinder 10 years ago! Online dating really broke the ice. I had such a hard time in college and after. Also, just accept your stutter, lean into it, be yourself. You gotta deal with th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2023
5 points

Thanks! I’m normally pretty passive and try to hide my stutter around people. But I’ve noticed that causes ore anxiety and makes it harder for me to communicate. When I get a new job I’m gonna try my ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2023
2 points

Just because I am not stuttering in this video in which I recorded of myself -alone-, does not mean that I am not a person with a stutter. As a stutterer, you should know that many of us talk fluently...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2023
1 points

This needs to be studied. I'm 100% fluent when I talk alone or practice my speech, that's how I know my stutter is stress and anxiety induced...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2023
5 points

Hey! I'm on a PC now, so I have a better way of explaining what I meant. I can't stand explaining things through my phone's keyboard. Sorry if this is going to get a bit long. I can get quite pass...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2023
2 points

Talking to ourself is a low stress activity where we dont hit our stuttering threshold. I'm a very severe stutterer but fluent when talking to myself....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2023
5 points

I think it's part anxiety, part learned behavior. Your brain has leaned over time to speak fluently in private , but in public "I'm a stutterer". I know which words I'll block on, but when I'm not act...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2023
10 points

"... not from a jedi." Lol. Seriously, though, yes. Anxiety is just a voice in your head tricking you into believing a lot of unhelpful u happy stuff. Anxiety tricks you into believing that somethin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2023
1 points

we're just starting out, but you are free to join in, although much of the activity will be lawyers specific, i'd say much of the advice/help would apply to any corporate environment...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2023
14 points

Anxiety or overthinking can do lots of weird things. A lot of people report lessening or even overcoming their stutter after overcoming their fear of speaking - their fear of stuttering. Im the sa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more