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commentr/StutterJan 19, 2022
5 points

I’m 45 with a moderate to severe stutter. I have a difficult relationship with it. On the plus side - Had a great social life, went to law school, actually had a run as a d-list politician and had t...

School & WorkCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
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commentr/StutterJan 19, 2022
6 points

Nah bro, this is not it. Don't let your stutter ruin your dreams - it's especially painful to read that you're genuinely passionate about physics, it's not even like you're at Uni for the sake of it. ...

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Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2022
2 points

Hello there, I am so incredibly sorry for the things you've had to go through because of other peoples insensitivity. I too have been bullied and laughed at and or sucks. As an introvert, I understand...

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Seeking TherapyAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2022
17 points

I wanted to quit college too. I wrote a letter to my parents explaining how I was sorry for wasting their money, etc. I never gave it to them, but my Mom found it one day and we had a long talk. My...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & CareerHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2022
29 points

Please don't go through with it. Those guys are bullies and jerks. One day you'll be a successful physicist and they'll be still be jerks. If a person with a stammer (me) can argue in front of judge, ...

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Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2022
4 points

I’m sorry you’re going through such thing. University days were challenging for me as well and somehow you survive the shitty days. Think about what would hurt you more: quitting university and workin...

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Helplessness & AgencySchool & Academic LifeEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2022
1 points

If your going into the interview thinking you're gonna blow it, you already failed 🤷‍♂️ best advice is to be upfront about your stutter right away, that always helps me. I blew 2 job interviews even ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringHope & MotivationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2022
11 points

I would buy a condo and feel free to practice my speech all day and then hit the bars,clubs,festivals and any social events to talk with people regularly. When i was working i was stressed out living ...

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Employment & CareerQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2022
2 points

Practice your key points so when it comes to it you know exactly what you’re gonna say, this has definitely helped me. You should also tell the interviewer that you stammer before the interview starts...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Preparation & RehearsalSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2022
10 points

Pretty much overcame my stutter by doing something similar. Got a job as a barman in my early twenties, whereby I had to communicate constantly. These days most people don’t believe me when I tell th...

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Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2022
2 points

Honestly don’t know what to say, you should just talk with a friend or a professional. In regards to male social hierarchies, mentality is what separates men. I’m 24, struggled with extreme stutteri...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2022
4 points

Bro chill. I was 270 lbs with a dead end job and hyperhidrosis (sweating condition) along with my stutter and life sucked. Couple years later now and I’m healthy, with a high paying remote job and act...

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Hope & MotivationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2022
1 points

Its just that most customer service jobs rely on scripted materials. For example, reading off a script from A to Z when interactinf with a customer. Its hard when you cant use your own phrasing. A fri...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentMedication InquiriesEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2022
1 points

I would say just working on my self-esteem and positive reinforcement from other people. I also went to therapy for a while where I talked about my feelings about stuttering, shame, social anxiety e...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2022
2 points

Currently work for an energy company. I found it scary as fuck at first and nearly quit but that motivated me to do well. I find ways around my speech, and even after nearly 6 years I still have hiccu...

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Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJan 15, 2022
3 points

Has anyone here worked in customer service jobs (telephone operator etc…) ? How did it work out for you with a stutter? I have had a pretty bad experience in this field and I dont think I will do it again. Just windering is I made the right decision.

Has anyone here worked in customer service jobs (telephone operator etc…) ? How did it work out for you with a stutter? I have had a pretty bad experience in this field and I dont think I will do it a...

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Employment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2022
2 points

I'm a teacher and I stutter. I'm in my 3rd year teaching and about 2 years ago, started speech therapy and letting myself stutter more openly but I still hide it too. For interview advice, do what'...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2022
1 points

My first IT job was during college. I monitored the company's backups on 3rd shift. That's how I was able to get my entry level "experience" as opposed to doing helpdesk. I still had to make phone ...

School & WorkCauses & Variability
Employment & CareerStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2022
1 points

Contact HR, preferably whoever you’ve been dealing with. Let them know you have a stutter and you’d like to make members on your interview panel aware of it. Tell them it doesn’t hold you back but it ...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2022
2 points

I work from home thankfully. But I worked two jobs prior. Both requiring a lot of communication. It’s difficult at first but you’ll get use to it....

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