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commentr/StutterDec 29, 2023
1 points

Sometimes there’s a word that I can’t get out no matter how hard I try. If I can’t substitute the word, there’s no way for me to express myself :(...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2023
1 points

This happens to me a lot more if i’m anxious with the person i’m talking to. If im comfortable, it’s much easier and stutter less. But i feel you, it sucks when you want to make a joke or tell a story...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & Weight
postr/StutterDec 28, 2023
1 points

Toast masters

Toast masters Has anyone tried toastmasters (public speaking club) to build confidence in front of people for interviewing or social situations?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2023
1 points

Hey, thanks so much for this response! I would agree that these examples ring true. I think that part of stuttering in the sense of it increasing in frequency and strength of the block can be related ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionTrauma & Psychological
postr/StutterDec 28, 2023
1 points

am i alone

am i alone am i the only one who is kinda sad because i dont get to say things i want to i conversation because when i have something to say on a topic i stutter to much to get it out before the topic...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & WeightSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2023
1 points

Absolutely! There's no point adding stress when stress makes things worse. Some people say that avoidance is a bad thing, but it depends on the context. Pathological avoidance needs to be worked on to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2023
1 points

Also avoiding some things that cause stress or make stuttering worse & actively preventing situations of discomfort. I don’t drink coffee now because it makes my stutter worse, I always tell peopl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2023
1 points

Yeah i also believe therapy with medication is the best way to go,, first people should learn the speaking techniques and just master them enough that they should be fluent with easy situation with (p...

Therapy & ProfessionalMeds & SubstancesAnticipation & Avoidance
Seeking TherapyMedication InquiriesAnticipating Stuttering+1 more
postr/StutterDec 28, 2023
1 points

Rejection makes me more insecure about myself, stutter included

Rejection makes me more insecure about myself, stutter included I went to an all girls high school, so that really didn't help me meet boys. But the key problem has always been my stutter. I can contr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2023
1 points

I have an appointment with one January 19th. He’s great. Actually I came to this site to ask what is the best thing to do when he gets a block on the next word? Is it Ok to interrupt and change the su...

Community & SupportSpeech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Advice RequestsBlocks & StoppagesAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 27, 2023
1 points

I understand that now, esp coz I don't have much of a choice anymore. But when i first started it always felt really demeaning and embarrassing to fail to communicate and resort to writing instead. No...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 27, 2023
1 points

I recognized this and tried therapy but with my extreme severity, even the therapist felt uneasy and recommended a speech therapist to me instead. Writing to communicate always felt weird. Tried sever...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & Professional
Severity & FluctuationAvoidance & SubstitutionSeeking Therapy+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 27, 2023
1 points

I’m in a job where I have to say Numbers all day and I have a severe stutter 4-7 which is like every number you use. It’s frustrating but it literally makes you find ways to say the words. Also anothe...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Severity & FluctuationAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 27, 2023
1 points

Amazing response! I loved reading it.. and I agree with you. This is my attempt to summarize your text into a vicious circle: 1. trauma \[negative experience\] \[hiding trauma\] \[feeding trauma\] 2...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 27, 2023
1 points

I would say trauma. Some or many events on the past that had such on impact on us that change our way of looking at the world on a negative basis. It is a learned behaviour that served a purpose when...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 27, 2023
1 points

Thanks for sharing - I’m a member of Stamma and I’ve attended that. I will look into the other ones and possibly even reaching out to them first before anything. For now, the focus is on working wit...

Community & SupportAnticipation & Avoidance
Advice OfferedAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 27, 2023
1 points

Not that involved to be honest. I’m based in the UK and the research on stuttering has been lacking. What’s available has not particularly been in line with my experiences of stuttering growing up. Fo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterDec 27, 2023
1 points

Thank you for your response! What exactly can I explain better in the text? Basically, the research is about inhibitory control. The role of inhibitory control is stimulus orienting, interference cont...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Neurological & BrainStress & Fight/FlightOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 27, 2023
1 points

Yes of course. So basically, the research states that the cause of stuttering is likely a dysfunction in the left hemisphere. That's the shortest and simplest I could answer.. and for the tips. Here a...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Neurological & BrainStress & Fight/FlightOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 26, 2023
1 points

Yh I use it for my ADHD. But I understand. But having a stutter doesn't make you weird, it make you...different. As someone who stutters, mainly blocks, it helps me...

Anticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionAssistive Devices