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commentr/StutterApr 25, 2023
1 points

Sorry, there's no quick real fix. The only way to get over fears is to face them and realize they're not as bad as you're making them out in your head. Start small....

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commentr/StutterApr 25, 2023
1 points

Running.šŸƒā€ā™‚ļø Picked it up last year and joined a local running group and now i'm doing it about 4-5 times a week. It's helped me regularly with how more often I socialise with folks. Still it's a ch...

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commentr/StutterApr 25, 2023
3 points

Oh, sorry for my miscommunication. I meant physical fitness, such as running, biking, yoga, climbing, etc. It has enabled me to focus heavily on breathing, lower stress, and be more confident....

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commentr/StutterApr 25, 2023
2 points

It’s paradoxical - if it’s bound to fail then fail saying what you most dread and fear. Objectively, women are just people. It’s the mind’s projection that makes it more scary for a reason, so you can...

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commentr/StutterApr 25, 2023
1 points

>ā€œovercoming a stutterā€ is not feasible for most people. Says who? People that haven't overcome their disfluency? Some of whom will one day achieve fluency. I didn't achieve fluency until my m...

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commentr/StutterApr 25, 2023
18 points

I'm struggling with your analogy so I'll let that one slide. To me, The Kings Speech was about a guy with a problem who had buried that problem for his whole life. He finally admits he has a problem ...

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postr/StutterApr 25, 2023
1 points

Representation of Stutterers in the Media

Representation of Stutterers in the Media Have you guys ever noticed how all the ā€œrepresentationā€ we have in the media (celebrities who stutter, films like the King’s Speech, etc.) all seem to focus ...

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Public Awareness / MediaIdentity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2023
1 points

Here's my story! I am a doctor who stutters. And i have never had any problems with dating girls. Infact i believe i am confident enough to talk and date them. The problem arrives in tense situations ...

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commentr/StutterApr 25, 2023
2 points

Experiences tend to get pretty intense at times and your sense of reality can get fairly warped. So it's best to first experience them in a safe, comfortable, familiar place with highly trusted friend...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
5 points

To see how much stuttering has taken a blow to my fellow stuttering brethren is disheartening 🄲 if only y’all knew how much chicks really don’t give a fuck about that shit 🄹 stop letting a condition...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
1 points

Yep Mate!! I remember i went to the therapist with my mum and she said I'll charge this amount and i looked at mum just showed her gesture, i think we should go, and i told the therapist I'll think ab...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
3 points

Same… honestly I had so many girls tell me after high school they liked me but thought I wasn’t interested because I never talked to them. In hindsight, senior year I asked a girl to homecoming dance...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
1 points

Yep Mate!!, I'm glad you r trying hard, InshAllah you will overcome this thing, well i also cant even answer phone calls of strangers, relatives even my own dad, and can talk fluently to mum, friends ...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
1 points

You may want to give voluntary stuttering a try. From personal experience, it was extremely difficult to get myself to do it( 2 years!), but its a very empowering experience. You are stuttering on p...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
2 points

Almost everyone has anxiety approaching girls. You just have to go for it. The more you do it the easier it’ll be. If you want to start approaching girls drop your balls already and do it. If you want...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
3 points

It’s a numbers game. You’re eventually going to find a nice girl who appreciates you risking embarrassment to talk to her....

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
6 points

Act like yourself, and remember that most people in adult life DGAF. Maybe even make fun of yourself a bit. Emphasize your good qualities, and understand that women can be just as shy as you. Ask a...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
2 points

sink or swim mindset. The worst part is getting past saying your name lmao I can take rejection way easier...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
4 points

I just go up to them confidently and say something like ā€œHey I thought you were cute can I get your number or snap?ā€ And it works. Even if I stutter they don’t care about it. Stutter with confidence a...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
2 points

They typically want you to get rid of stuttering? Easier said than done...

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