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commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
3 points

There's about 12 or thirteen of them. They're things like whispering problem words and dropping the first letter of the word you're blocking. Of course most of these crutches don't tackle the underlyi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionPositive Therapy Techniques
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
2 points

Well, for some people a literal crutch is temporary, some people need it for life. There’s not a lot of people who need a literal crutch for life, since it seems like they either recover or get a whee...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
1 points

If you could seek out and take the opportunity to speak, even for short periods, it might help. You mentioned you've experienced progress in other areas of your life. This will be the same thing. Go...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
1 points

He’s not an SLP but he was a stutterer and knows exactly what he’s talking about. I’ve actually beat my stutter and consider myself cured with his methods. Again you use a crutch is a temporary thing ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
3 points

I say do whatever works for you. I use a lot of little tricks to get through the day, and I don't feel bad about it....

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Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
2 points

Great advice! Additionally, are there ways to desensitize to the "pressure" (or perceived conflict/errors) that the letters /P/ and /A/ bring about (instead of adding fillers)? Perhaps if we target th...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterMar 5, 2024
5 points

Do you also speak too fast sometime?

Do you also speak too fast sometime? Despite being stutter this is something I face on daily basis. When I get a smooth flow I tend to speak fluently without getting stuck. Few days back, I was explai...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationQuality of Life
postr/StutterMar 5, 2024
6 points

Stammering and selective mutism.

Stammering and selective mutism. Is there any relation between stammering and selective mutism ? I have selective mutism more than stammering. When someone ask my name or in my introduction i get com...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
1 points

I completely understand! I used to have a stutter when I was little and had good enough speech therapy to where now I, for the most part, only do it when I get really excited or nervous. Recently I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentBlocks & StoppagesAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterMar 4, 2024
15 points

Managing people as someone who stutters (30F)

Managing people as someone who stutters (30F) Starting this year I got promoted to manager of a team at my job - something I never thought would happen because of my stuttering, but here I am. For a b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringSeverity & Fluctuation+2 more
postr/StutterMar 4, 2024
1 points

Managing people with as someone with a stutter (30F)

Managing people with as someone with a stutter (30F) Starting this year I got promoted to manager of a team at my job - something I never thought would happen because of my stuttering, but here I am. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringSeverity & Fluctuation+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
5 points

Same here. I liked your quote; extrovert trapped inside an introvert. So true. Whenever I feel more confident the exotrover part of me come´s out and the stuttering diminish. Just like being alone. Y...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
1 points

Ditto. Memorizing it really helps for me, even if I don't stick to it. I also rework parts that I stumble on repeatedly so they're easier to say....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Preparation & RehearsalAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
1 points

Use chat gpt and hunt/replace the words you stutter on with the words you are sure you'll be fluent(words without blockages in most cases) Did that for my presentation and it worked. Just maintain a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
postr/StutterMar 4, 2024
19 points

I don't quite understand

I don't quite understand I stutter, but only if I am nervous or excited which is basically 90% of my time. I tried speaking out loud when I was alone and I spoke surprisingly fluent, so I figured tha...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
1 points

First you have to practice reading it aloud and find out which are the words you are struggling with the most (for me it's words that start with n,a,e,i,u) Then you can change the words by using a sy...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2024
3 points

In the communication class (a million years ago) we stood up and spoke in front of the class regularly. Volunteer to present first. Sitting and dreading your turn will only up the anxiety. Be bold....

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Preparation & RehearsalSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2024
5 points

No. Also try sending people voice messages (be sure that you can cancel and not send voice message anytime when you record, it's important). Most likely you won't stutter in this situation as well....

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2024
2 points

U gonna have to either condense it or go over the time. You’re gonna waste more time if you block or stutter through it anyway....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2024
2 points

Interestingly, your situation is very similar to mine (we are also same age lol). I have always had a mild stutter that I could perfectly conceal. I went through school and university without much spe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more