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commentr/StutterNov 23, 2018
2 points

I hate when people who are fluent slip up and stutter on a word and are like “whoops I did a Claire.” Stuttering is not a joke or an accidental one time slip up. I think about every sentence, every si...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2018
3 points

You make some very good points here. I agree completely with all of your points in the first paragraph, I have found that people with communication issues are generally very thoughtful people. When I ...

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commentr/StutterNov 11, 2018
4 points

Incredible how I came onto this sub to post something just like this, then I saw your post. My story is different, but our problems are the same. ​ My speech was good enough to get me th...

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Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2018
1 points

I recorded myself speaking once for a class video. it was pretty okay and kind of what I expected. But I didn't have the right format for editing etc so my classmate came over with his camcorder and r...

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Overthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2018
1 points

Speak like you were explaining something to the other person, gesticulate a lot (be very assertive). Use your hands, it may sound absurd but what you have to do to stutter less is focusing less on stu...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2018
1 points

I get the exact same feeling. Do you notice that you never stutter while you’re alone? I honestly don’t know as much as I should considering that I am a stutterer, but it feels more psychological than...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Trauma & PsychologicalOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2018
2 points

It's common to have certain sounds that (almost) always cause trouble. But that doesn't necessarily mean it'll always be a problem. Some of this may be addressable in the mindset department. When you...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2018
1 points

Yes, and the more you think about it the worse t will be. Just let whatever you’re going to say roll off your tongue. I was taught my whole childhood to think what I was going to say before saying it ...

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Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2018
1 points

Hey, man. I hate that my speech gets worse when I'm excited, cause you just want to get it out to share the excitement! I know I want to just live in that incredible excitement and be able to say what...

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commentr/StutterOct 25, 2018
4 points

The key to controlling your stutter is the very thing you lose when you start actively trying to "fix" it. The most important thing is that you need to be aware of your breath, try to make yourself as...

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Overthinking & MonitoringFluency TechniquesMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2018
1 points

It's all in our heads man and I firmly believe that. Our brains control EVERYTHING we do, how we feel emotionally and physically, our breathing, etc... something in our brains switches and decides we'...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2018
2 points

there’s little patience when it comes to law enforcement just be patient with yourself bc they’ll never understand the daily struggle...

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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2018
2 points

Try to become aware that you’re doing them. If I realized it I would slow down, relax my face muscles, and speak softer and slower...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Overthinking & MonitoringPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2018
2 points

I'm 26 and Ironically my job has shifted to mostly sales even though I tried to initially avoid it. I've found though that being prepared for the calls (e.g. having a plan and clear objectives) combin...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringFluency Techniques+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2018
2 points

I had the same problem when I had my exams some years ago. The teacher and sensor didn't understand a word of what I said. Whew. I never managed to relax under that exam. ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2018
2 points

Hello. I'd love to chime in here if I could. I think controlling stuttering is definitely an option. However, I think a more liberating option is to focus on speaking smoothly, clearly, calmly and...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringEnergy & Biological Rhythms+2 more
postr/StutterOct 21, 2018
12 points

For those who use a technique: Do you ever feel exhausted after using said technique?

For those who use a technique: Do you ever feel exhausted after using said technique? This is something that I am very curious to hear different opinions on. So allow me to explain in case the title i...

Coping & AdvocacySpeech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesPhysical TensionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2018
1 points

Yes from what I’ve read from you social anxiety is the case I stutter and once had really bad social anxiety so I know both sides well lol Look more into social anxiety to see for yourself but I hope...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2018
1 points

you may be right. I could just mix up my words here and there. this at least gives me some reassurance that I need to work on being more confident and work on my people skills. ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2018
1 points

No stutter but you probably suffer from social anxiety. It’s actually really common especially nowadays where more and more people are meeting online so when you actually meet someone in person it fee...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring