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commentr/StutterMar 23, 2023
4 points

Yep. It is a slow process to overcome and I still struggle with it. But I try to remember that the shame is not my friend, and it is not based on any true assumptions about myself. You need to develop...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Acceptance & PrideShame & EmbarrassmentTrauma & Psychological+1 more
postr/StutterMar 23, 2023
16 points

How to not dwell on past stutters?

How to not dwell on past stutters? Hello all. I have stuttered my entire life. My condition has improved to the point where I have a baseline level of fluency and I even have a career as an attorney...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & PrideEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2023
5 points

Almost 40 and still stutter. I have good days and bad days but I don’t suffer. I’m not ashamed of it, openly talk about it and have even given keynotes on overcoming adversity. I’ve learned to be happ...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideEmployment & CareerHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 22, 2023
2 points

You might find your stutter, and your attitude towards your own stutter, changing as the years roll by. Your confidence changes and your comfort within your own body changes which can dramatically imp...

Speech & StutteringSchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Onset & Life-Stage ChangesEmployment & CareerHope & Motivation
postr/StutterMar 22, 2023
11 points

Little stutter rant

Little stutter rant Hello. I haven’t been on this subreddit for long, I have posted here and there though. I’ve had a stutter since I was able to talk, had speech therapy for about 5 years, and I’m no...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2023
1 points

Two saw it as an issue, one was my tutor, the other a supervisor. The tutor buggered off to a squad after 5 weeks so that resolved itself and the supervisor buggered off to Norfolk. No one else ever m...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2023
2 points

College pa lang ako ngayon pero ino-overthink ko na kung paano ako makakapasa sa interview sa pag-apply ng trabaho 😔...

School & Work
Employment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2023
2 points

oh, ok interesting.. 👍 Ang hirap maging person who stutters sa 'Pinas 'no.. even though you're educated and all.. idi-discriminate ka pa din ng employers... it's doubly hard to find a decent job espe...

School & Work
Employment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2023
21 points

My wife was my second girl friend. She didn't care. Neither did my first girl friend. Once people reach adulthood, little things like a stutter (not saying a stutter is a little thing, just that in th...

School & Work
Employment & Career
postr/StutterMar 20, 2023
3 points

Tips for interviews.

Tips for interviews. Can I tell before that I am having stuttering ( But I have a doubt whether they feel in the right way or not ) Nowadays the Software job is bad . Then who will hire me to work th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2023
1 points

I had my first job interview about a year ago, i was only 18 at the time with no prior experience so I got basic questions. I stuttered a little bit throughout the prior questions, and then when I wa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2023
3 points

I guess you can't get them to accommodate you. I applaud you wanting to go ahead and try though. At my job, I let them know up front that I stutter and it's worse on the phone so they told me I can ju...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2023
3 points

Since it's temporary you can get through it without too much stress. I feel as if when I know most of anything a customer can ask and i dont have to ask anyone else to chip in to get the right answer ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hope & MotivationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2023
3 points

I’ll give you two answers: 1. I’ve had to answer phones for an employer in the past. I am also mild/moderate. I pushed through, doing the work, but not exactly by script. Everyday was a sweaty, nervou...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
postr/StutterMar 20, 2023
14 points

New to this page

New to this page Hi all, I'm Meagan and I've had a mild-moderate stutter since I was a kid. I'm happy to find a group like this to share wins, stories, struggles etc. I started a new job in the Fall ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & SubstancesSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHelpful Med Outcomes+1 more
postr/StutterMar 20, 2023
31 points

“Mum will be sad” is the only reason that is keeping me alive till now

“Mum will be sad” is the only reason that is keeping me alive till now First، chill! I am not gonna hurt myself. but you know.. my problem is not how hard my life is. its more about the boredom, the e...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencySadness & HopelessnessAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2023
1 points

Yeah just start out with saying u do have a stutter. I used to drink a lot and one time I went to an interview drunk, it went super well and I got the job l(I was late fired for drinking as well). Tho...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2023
1 points

>My experience has been in professional environments that people are tolerant of disabilities. They are tolerant of visible disabilities(lost limb/blind/morbid obesity). They usually aren't tolera...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterMar 19, 2023
12 points

What Do You Do For Job Interviews?

What Do You Do For Job Interviews? What if you had a job interview and there were no options in the interview for requesting accommodations? Because I've had job interviews before where I've stuttere...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2023
3 points

I feel you man when it comes to working a job nobody gives a shut about stutterers sure the minority’s and lgbt communities are protected for the most part but when it comes to interviews once I start...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment