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commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
5 points

That's awful! I am so sorry. I wish people were a little more sensitive and understanding of what others are going through. And I swear most teachers are really useless....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
6 points

I'm so sorry, it happened to me only twice (my dad and my sister) and I felt so bad and 'betrayed'. I can't even imagine how being mocked is, especially by someone who is supposed to love and help...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
14 points

Bullied a lot in high school, get laughed at regularly by strangers when I have a hard time saying my name. But the worst time, was a couple years ago at a new job where I had to answer the phone. One...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJul 9, 2020
14 points

My story i guess

My story i guess Ive been lurking this subreddit for a while so i guess it’s time to post. Okay so i have stuttered since i was little but it hasn’t really been much of a problem until last year when...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
5 points

When I was about 8, the teacher made us each read a sentence and went around the class, which to most stammers, is absolute torture, the quick time you have to count everyone in front of you and find ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJul 9, 2020
18 points

Does anyone else find that they stutter way more around people they’re more comfortable with?

Does anyone else find that they stutter way more around people they’re more comfortable with? Hi! I’ve been lurking here for a while to try and make more sense of the feelings associated with stutte...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
31 points

I once went to order food at this place on my college campus and when I went to say the thing I wanted, I blocked really hard on the item I wanted to order and the lady burst out laughing so hard and ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
4 points

that look that people give when u block!! waah like cmon! is there a bee stinging ur face?" did u eat something sore?" so annoying....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2020
1 points

Well, first of all, "subconscious" isn't a well-defined term. That's why I mention the model thing. Lots of non-fruitful things floating around in that regard. We shouldn't be "self-conceptualizing" i...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. MaskingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2020
3 points

Everything you list I struggle with too... it's really wearing me down. Life has enough shit to deal with. Adding the stress of a stutter on top of it all is soul crushing. I sometimes feel society co...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJul 8, 2020
82 points

Everything I hate about stutter.

Everything I hate about stutter. I hate stutter. I hate that I cant order something I like because of shame and end up ordering the first thing on menu that sounds easy to say. I hate that I cant ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
postr/StutterJul 7, 2020
26 points

I'm nervous about starting a YouTube channel.

I'm nervous about starting a YouTube channel. I really want to start a YouTube channel because I really love talking. But I can't even get through a video successfully because of my stutter. I always ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentPropositionality & Weight+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2020
2 points

I do know that the things that run through my mind and the things I want to say are important. but most times I really just dont have the energy to talk and I feel like it's just not worth the pain an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2020
2 points

I really wanna surround myself with positivity. but I guess I've attached too many emotions to my stutter. I've complicated things for myself and honestly idk if I can get out of it....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2020
1 points

ikr. its really hard. imagine being afraid to speak even though u can. imagine wishing you were just mute. it is difficult....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2020
3 points

I totally get what you are saying, btw i am also from India, i also feel that i stop myself sometimes from conversations or initiating one, i think it's maybe because we don't want to go through the p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterJul 5, 2020
18 points

is it just me?

is it just me? I dont know when it started. Not talking about my stutter. but my habit of forcing myself to not open my mouth, almost challenging myself, when guests or friends of family come over. I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJul 2, 2020
7 points

My stutter makes me sound stupid

My stutter makes me sound stupid Does anyone else feel like their stutter makes them sound stupid? I don’t want to be big headed but I’d say I’m an intelligent, creative, articulate person. I don’t ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2020
13 points

Oh god , this is bringing some bad memories . In high school I had few days where I wasn’t able to say present . I was marked absent for three days and the teacher noticed and asked me why I didn’t ...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentOnset & Life-Stage Changes
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2020
3 points

It's better to not feel like it than not being able to, man. Why do you feel insecure? Maybe try to sort that out since that's not a good place to be in...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment