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commentr/StutterApr 5, 2021
8 points

I hate when they don't answer personally, just because i know I will have to force myself to try again....

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 5, 2021
-1 points

So you agreed to disagree but at the same time tried to correct on what I see as my reality by indicating I make myself fit into others reality by catering to them. Bless your soul, I never had to ca...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Authenticity vs. MaskingHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
postr/StutterApr 4, 2021
31 points

Am I entitled for not wanting to have to use techniques?

Am I entitled for not wanting to have to use techniques? There are many techniques that make me (seem) fluent: taking a super deep breath and exhaling out all the words, pretending like I’m singing a ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. MaskingHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2021
2 points

I actually wished (and still) being mute than having to deal with a soul devastating stutter... People won't expect much from you if you're mute. I mean they won't deal with you as they do with a stut...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2021
2 points

It's almost like we're living in a cage, I have deeply felt and still sometimes feel it too. But then I think of people who are living in other cages, including ourselves, not because of stuttering b...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2021
3 points

Firstly, i appreciate the sincerity of your comment. But for some, like me, the reality is not that simple. For instance, talking on the phone is a near impossibility for me, so anything to do with p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2021
31 points

I struggle with much the same. I can't engage with people in the way I want. I can't joke around, I can't tell interesting stories, or anything. Because it's all such a struggle and a journey to say....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2021
2 points

Dude, trust me I know exactly how you feel. It's frustrating as hell. What sucks is that we have a disability that people don't even recognize as a disability. It's one the only disorders that people ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyStigma & BullyingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2021
1 points

I think it is the best option, but as I am now I have no chance but thank you anyway...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2021
1 points

telling me that I can do nothing in the future that I am useless and many other things, It's so harder man...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2021
4 points

They don’t understand. I’ve been working as a Correctional Officer in maximum security prison and this past year it’s all I’ve been getting. Other officers don’t talk to me or interact with me and it’...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
postr/StutterApr 2, 2021
17 points

Why do ppl act like we are dumb

Why do ppl act like we are dumb all my life ppl act like i’m slow or something just because i stutter, some of my own family and friends have told me they thought i was special ed or something was wro...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2021
2 points

I completely understand. For me, what helped was moving away from them, but that makes things harder if you're not independent....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2021
1 points

Hi, another Eric here, actually my name is Lucas and I found this subreddit 4 hours ago and I am so glad I found this group! As for Eric it’s hard, I’m 22 and it’s not like a switch you flip, I will t...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2021
3 points

I wouldn't quit. Just realize that you're at a handicap and likely won't win anything because debating is partly graded on delivery....

School & WorkEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2021
2 points

I didn't have the same experience at my last job as you are having but I know my speech kept me from ever advancing to a higher position in the company. Even tho I knew for a fact I was qualified and ...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerHelplessness & AgencyAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterMar 31, 2021
8 points

Anyone in the UX/UI design field? Seeking some career advice

Anyone in the UX/UI design field? Seeking some career advice I've been going through a career change after quitting my boring, mindless, repetitive job in data analysis about a year ago. Went through ...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2021
26 points

I understand this and sometimes have the same thoughts myself, I need to remember though that it’s all relative and someone who is a paraplegic mute might wonder what the hell I’m feeling anxious abou...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterMar 29, 2021
2 points

Any cures to stuttering?

Any cures to stuttering? Ever since middle school I’ve started to stutter. Every time I stuttered around my dad he would think it’s something wrong with my tonsils and would tell me to go the doctors....

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Advice RequestsHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterMar 29, 2021
55 points

Sick of this.

Sick of this. Life could be so easy. I was always an articulate kid and still am, during the moments I don't stutter. Then at 15, my stutter developed out of nowhere. It got worse over the years, and...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception