So you agreed to disagree but at the same time tried to correct on what I see as my reality by indicating I make myself fit into others reality by catering to them. Bless your soul, I never had to cater to others to make myself fit in. It’s called being able to recognize I don’t have a handicap, people don’t care, women damn sure don’t care and regardless if I could say 1 word or an entire sentence I still had to live life and not become one of those who created this fake reality of non communication and walking around afraid and only dealing with people who ACCEPTS how we talk. Many of our brothers and sisters suffer from this daily and some their entire lives. It’s conditioning and if you continue to judge people just because you THINK they don’t like you just because. That’s bullshit and your life will be bullshit because you will not be able to be socialized in reality. We can’t run away from reality trust me reality run towards us faster than normal. In my profession who would have thought I would have to have actual face to face conversations with people on a daily basis, sometimes all day, give lectures, speeches and on top of all of that people have extra questions afterwards. Do you think I sat there and said well if they are not cool with my stutter then they won’t listen to what I had to say. No, the reality was I had to get my ass up and do something they had no clue I struggled in. It wasn’t a choice at all, I faced the reality that was presented to me without trying to alter it by using stuttering as an excuse to be that comfortable shadow in life I see so many of us be.