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postr/StutterNov 7, 2024
4 points

How the hell do you bring up your stutter to people without it being awkward?

How the hell do you bring up your stutter to people without it being awkward? Usually no one mentions my stutter, I think because they don't want to seem rude. It's just awkward because I've been frie...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2024
1 points

You definitely did better than me my interview was a whole hour and I stuttered a lot like u except for worst...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterNov 7, 2024
15 points

Why is stuttering really so misunderstood/noticed with everybody and all general societies?

Why is stuttering really so misunderstood/noticed with everybody and all general societies? I am still quite young and was taking to a friend a while back about my stutter since it’s not anywhere as s...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingIdentity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2024
3 points

Persons who have SOs tend to have a mild stutter. And they get to preach other persons who stutter that if you just accept who you are and be yourself, women/men will look past that. Then there is som...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2024
2 points

I’m a little different, I’ve always stuttered but through speech therapy and over time I’ve improved my speech and I’m really confident when I’m speaking. There’s are certain situations for me though...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2024
1 points

I feel the same, being rejected by stutter which caused low social skills. I got invited to job interview but somehow being ghosted. I think stuttering is hidden reason - yes Im kinda nervous and some...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2024
3 points

Firstly cut that person off that u considered a friend. I’m surprised people our age (I’m 17M) still do shit like this, it’s upsetting and weird. Anyway it gets better though trust and congrats for be...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2024
23 points

I’m really sorry you had to go through that, OP. That person is no friend at all and they’ve just shown you they are the type of person you don’t have to bother with from now on. Credit to you for get...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2024
3 points

It's neurological in the way that your brain is still building new connections, and stuttering evolves along with it. Unfortunately, the brain does not understand that your speech patterns are flawed ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterNov 7, 2024
1 points

What is your motivation for job interviews? ( my life story)

What is your motivation for job interviews? ( my life story) I 23M live in Pakistan , I know most of you are westerners so I know different living conditions but we stutter the same :) So I picked ...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2024
1 points

I just had the worst stuttering experience while being on the phone, and even worse - I’ll be meeting this person in like 30 minutes. They were also super nice to me, as there was zero energy change w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCommunity & Support
Feared Words & NamesStress & Fight/FlightValidation & Empathy+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2024
1 points

I think therapy would help you. If I stopped stuttering, I’m sure I would need to seek help to fix my social anxiety....

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
1 points

It's so frustrating because even if they know of your struggle and that you're a great guy etc, it's still so painful and embarrassing. Not being in control of one's body in public is the ultimate sha...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
4 points

It sounds like you're making a lot of assumptions. First, how old are these girls? If we're talking about girls in their early teens then I would say just try not to let it bother you. At this age eve...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
3 points

We have to be in a calm state. I know it's hard. Im trying to figure it out too. Just know ur not alone....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
1 points

You might have an apologetic vibe about it, making them feel obligated to feel bad for you and comfort you. This can make people feel conflicted about chatting with you. Otherwise you might be quite...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
1 points

Same happened with me. Now o don't stutter at all but only in professional gatherings. How can i fix this...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
2 points

Almost every child stutter when they starts to speak because they might speak fast or sometimes they don't have a proper sentence in their mind. But stutter due to fear of stutter is worst thing and i...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
5 points

Same i swear i got rejected from a really great job because i was stuttering and nervous it was my first ever interview with 3 people And the thing is i really have communication skills i talk very fl...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
1 points

Bro advice from me shes not the one if get bothered about ur problem Most girls Actually see stuttering cute so thats her problem i stutter alot but dgaf about it but i get upset when stuttering in a ...

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Dating & RomanceEmployment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment