It's so frustrating because even if they know of your struggle and that you're a great guy etc, it's still so painful and embarrassing. Not being in control of one's body in public is the ultimate shame trigger, equal to just standing there and shitting yourself 😞 After 2 months interviewing and doing tests I got a rejection from this job I was really excited about. I have the precisely right background and got the highest score in their IQ test, so I guess it's just my "personality" that showed too much under pressure...