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commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
2 points

Zero impact? That’s hilarious. Every minute of every day I have to predict, evaluate and analyze every word just to try to have a normal life. Stuttering impacts everything I do, be it good or bad....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
4 points

>it is something I won't be able to live with because I've been insecure my whole life about my speaking skills and wouldn't want my kids to ever feel the same as I do >has a good heart an...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceParent & Caregiver
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentParent Emotions & Guilt+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
0 points

YES I KNOW, and I feel terrible about it.. I never told him my worries because I don't want him to feel like he isn't enough...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2022
2 points

I’m with you. I never tell people I stutter and I think it’s generally a bad idea to do so. Immediately when a person hears you have a speech disability, you are “mapped” in their brain as inferior. C...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling OthersShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2022
2 points

Between my stutter, shyness and being overweight, I'm not sure what people dislike me more for. In most work/social/school settings I got the sense that I was "tolerated" by others. On occasion my stu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2022
3 points

I used to hate phone calls whole heartedly. I’ve gotten much better now. Zoom calls…not great unfortunately. Phone calls with someone you’ll never meet and holds zero importance to you (like ATT or y...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2022
2 points

People don't usually have the patience to talk to me for very long, and sometimes they feel uncomfortable, but most of my friends and acquaintances seem to like me okay. I seriously go out of my way...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2022
3 points

Might have something to do with dopamine : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dopamine_hypothesis_of_stuttering My experience with antipsychotics : * Haloperidol sent me straight to the hospital due to...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & Avoidance
Harmful Med OutcomesHiding & ConcealmentHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
1 points

At my best I am 95 percent fluent. On average I am mild to severe. I have issues ordering food/tickets/ anything really. Its worse when I care how I'll be judged....

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Severity & FluctuationHiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2022
5 points

It’s so good to see someone speaking some genuine from-the-heart truth up in this bitch. Stuttering fucking blows. It’s undeniable. I don’t want to come across like some kind of asshole here, but t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2022
2 points

Hey! I’m 23m, I have a sever stutter (according to my speech therapist), I’m also about to start grad school for speech pathology…I also have been seeing a speech therapist for myself for the last li...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2022
1 points

It should be obvious.. but it's not. I had a colleague admit to me recently that they thought I was just doing it on purpose this whole time. I'm not.. and it's not always apparent depending on the st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2022
1 points

Yes, thats exactly what I'm trying to tell you. You need be comfortable with yourself in whatever you're doing. I'm sorry you had to go through 'near total destruction' while trying to push yourself t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 20, 2022
1 points

You do you. Having empathy for others, and holding myself to a high standard are not my excuses to avoid conversation. The fact I have a severe stutter, along with a distinct aversion to contact of ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2022
2 points

Mute it and watch her face (mostly eyes). Looking down (breaking eye contact) is connected with those long, painful blocks. Try keeping eye contact....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2022
5 points

An accurate side would be (this is coming from Me as a female who’s had one for 22yrs) that not all stutters are the same. Mine got bad when I was young but I was hushed by adults. I got therapy but t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStrategic Swearing/Cursing+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2022
3 points

Half my team didn’t know I had a stutter, until my boss bitched about my stutter saying he can’t take me on client calls and doesn’t want to hire another person has a stutter. Then one of my team mate...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & FluctuationFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2022
2 points

Ayo same. Delivery driver for dominos and yeah same here. I've only had one dude think I have tourettes when I called him and another dude ask if I'm OK lmao but the rest are either trying not to judg...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2022
2 points

My employment history has spanned retail to hard labour to aviation. My last job, and what I thought would be my career, was working as an Aircraft Systems Technician, or Aircraft Mechanic, in the Roy...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2022
1 points

This is absolutely true. I do this all the time. I kind of mumble and leave out sounds that are hard for me. Sometimes I even leave out whole words in a sentence. People usually get the gist. It's lik...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment