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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2022
9 points

These posts have more tips: * [this post](https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/y4apcf/tips_to_speak_with_less_stuttering_choral_speech/) has tips to speak more fluently with choral speech method...

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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2022
3 points

it's horrible. I probably would have walked home to avoid that issue. I remember being in in a police lineup (as an extra for money), but the officer went down thr line asking everyone their name. I...

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postr/StutterOct 18, 2022
16 points

Feeling like crap

Feeling like crap Had a negative experience today, I got on the bus with my usual online booked ticket and the bus driver asked for my name cause he had the booking in front of him on screen. This has...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentFrustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2022
3 points

1. Yes, it began when I was a child (I don't remember the exact age) and increased in severity to adulthood. 2. During school, I would apply for alternate assessments (e.g. private oral presentation i...

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postr/StutterOct 12, 2022
4 points

I’m not sure why this happens

I’m not sure why this happens Like the tittle says I don’t know why this happens so around early may I started stuttering like a lot out of nowhere every-time I would say something it was just a hot m...

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commentr/StutterOct 11, 2022
1 points

Yep! You are right because no one wants to get along with a Debby Downer as they say if a stutterer only focuses on the negative things of stuttering. Positive evaluation is better, certainly, because...

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commentr/StutterOct 11, 2022
2 points

Well maybe they should both be treated at the same time. Or any order I suppose would be effective. Because it’s a whole system and I don’t think it would require a proper order. More like a mix of tr...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 11, 2022
1 points

I think you are right, especially in the opposite way. Most stutterers I think started out evaluating stuttering negatively (shame, fear, guilt that they stutter) and after many years they think posit...

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commentr/StutterOct 11, 2022
0 points

Man, I don’t know if this is your fault from here. You explained yourself, genuinely apologized. Maybe ask her if you can go out into public with her and fake stutter to strangers. Not to mock her but...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterOct 11, 2022
4 points

I'm sure we've all been though it in some way. The worst was when I had just finished high school. I was at a store and a girl one or two years younger than me was probably working part time but spok...

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commentr/StutterOct 11, 2022
2 points

Yes! I did that, in the sense of I said the things that I currently thought about the situation to them and sad that I didn’t do it with bad intentions and that I took it as a compliment. Even there,...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
postr/StutterOct 10, 2022
4 points

Suppose I stutter when I'm alone, what incorrect evaluations could I have towards myself who is listening to my own voice?

Suppose I stutter when I'm alone, what incorrect evaluations could I have towards myself who is listening to my own voice? ...

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Overthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2022
1 points

Thank you very much for your comment! My partner is not very known for their patience sadly ahah At the same time, I truly felt that they were looking at me with disappointed eyes, which is very under...

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Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2022
1 points

At the same time, I honestly feel saddened by the episode and even if I don’t stutter, I honestly understand how much they could feel hurt over this. I’m honestly concerned about the forgiving part, w...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterOct 10, 2022
8 points

I playfully fake stuttered in front of my parter that stutters while we were flirting and I made the biggest mistake of my life

I playfully fake stuttered in front of my parter that stutters while we were flirting and I made the biggest mistake of my life Hi, I'm writing here because I want to better myself and want to ackno...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterOct 10, 2022
13 points

How do I stop the negative self-judgment every time I stutter?

How do I stop the negative self-judgment every time I stutter? It seems like my mind is constantly evaluating: is my speech good or not? I use some fluency techniques right now.. If I speak well,...

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commentr/StutterOct 10, 2022
9 points

Hi there, I've been a stutter my whole life (i'm 41), and work in a career in marketing where I have to make presentations (informal and formal), and speak up in small groups with my opinion. It was r...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Public SpeakingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2022
1 points

I’m sorry to hear you’ve been through all this. Did your program have a strategy for responding to relapse? That’s what you need. The McGuire program has it, and I’ve been able to stay pretty much flu...

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commentr/StutterOct 10, 2022
64 points

YES. People constantly call the man senile, but ANYONE who stutters will instantly recognize that any time he messes up a sentence, or structures a sentence weirdly/awkwardly, it's because a block got...

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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2022
7 points

I feel you man i just turned 15 and i stutter and in school reading gives me nightmares and also kids in school would ask me some dumb questions to see if i stutter.And stuttering holds me back so muc...

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