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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2022
1 points

Having a stutter is difficult but your issue of keeping plans is unrelated. You can't use your stutter as an excuse for being flaky....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2022
16 points

I wonder how life would be for me without stuttering. Man.. my life would've been in a better place right now. No more depression. No more loneliness. No more endless dark roads...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2022
2 points

yup i’m the same. a few of my friends tell me i’m an interesting person, and that i should contribute to conversations more but the second i start stuttering i lose all confidence and i end the conver...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterAug 27, 2022
28 points

Stop blaming the stutter

Stop blaming the stutter Stuttering is a bit insidious. It's a disability. And it's not a disability. You don't see it. It's easily concealed. Its impact and weight are greater in the mind of the pers...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2022
6 points

were all same here my dude , i hope ill be able to buy a small crib in the future and just do woodworking , which i hope will pay my bills so i dont need to go and talk to people :D...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
postr/StutterAug 27, 2022
25 points

im tired

im tired Im just tired of always being the silent one, when I tried to speak its never like "he has good opinion on this topic" or " i will talk with him about this more because, i like him" its alway...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2022
5 points

I can relate, my stutter keeps me from going out and socializing so much. I'm late 30's, in great shape, successful, but for the life of me I can't put myself out there. My friends keep asking me ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2022
1 points

Yea. I was diagnosed with social anxiety disorder years ago. I honestly don't feel I suffer from that so much anymore or at least not nearly to the same degree but I'm still very hesitant to talk to p...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencySadness & Hopelessness
postr/StutterAug 27, 2022
27 points

does anyone feel like they arent a normal functioning member of society due to the (social) anxiety that comes with a stutter?

does anyone feel like they arent a normal functioning member of society due to the (social) anxiety that comes with a stutter? i also suffer from GAD so i guess this isnt stutter specific but still, m...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & IsolationHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterAug 26, 2022
19 points

I wish there was a treatment for stuttering

I wish there was a treatment for stuttering I fucking hate not being able to talk, interact and socialize as much as I want, having to constantly worry about teachers making me do class presentations...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Quality of LifeHelplessness & AgencyMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2022
4 points

Yeah, especially when you're trying to socialize or you're trying to ask for something you need but can't say it. and it's embarrassing when you're just sitting there with your mouth open like a freak...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2022
2 points

I wish us stutterers had more resources. I have always been treated I can do anything I want and the stutter is just a stutter. I think I had some developmental delays and it is all connected. I fe...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Research & ResourcesHelplessness & AgencyMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2022
1 points

Can we explore cyclical nature here. Does introverted causes stuttering or stuttering is so much pain that you choose to be an introvert. I am a stutterer and can call me an introvert. But there is a ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Cycles & RandomnessIdentity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2022
12 points

“Why suffer twice” this is something I read a while back about anxiety and it really makes sense to me. Whatever your stressed about will be over eventually and will likely not define your life....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2022
2 points

You're saying you're socially isolated and that you want to work remotely to distance yourself socially. How do you expect to get rid of the stutter if you're running away from people. The only way t...

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Loneliness & IsolationHelplessness & AgencyAdvice Requests
postr/StutterAug 22, 2022
58 points

Bro i'm getting really depressed

Bro i'm getting really depressed Every day I see people in general, sometimes friends talking to everyone and making a connection with them (sometimes flirting). And I say to myself "I could do that. ...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
2 points

I can definitely empathize and relate to your frustration 100%. I’m not gonna give u the same old script about how to supposedly fix your situation because sometimes I feel like I’ve tried everything ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterAug 21, 2022
30 points

I Think My Stutter Is Going To Unalive Me

I Think My Stutter Is Going To Unalive Me I've been trying to get any measly a\*\* job for months now and people simply want nothing to do with me. I'm talking about minimum wage jobs. I think its be...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Employment & CareerHelplessness & AgencyBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2022
3 points

Let me just state I hope you're experiencing a form of recency bias by saying, "I am over giving people chances. People are by and large, superficial and idiotic" When you for damn sure know that o...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2022
6 points

Mate I'd highly recommend taking the approach of trying to tolerate the ignorant people. Not for their sake but for yours. You'll have a better life if you are less angry at a the world Most people ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency+1 more