Mate I'd highly recommend taking the approach of trying to tolerate the ignorant people. Not for their sake but for yours. You'll have a better life if you are less angry at a the world Most people are not malicious about stutters. Some are ignorant and well, some people are just ass holes but most people aren't. My general experience is that people react far more to how the person reacts to their stutter not their actual stutter. Most women already have a built in defense up about being cold approached, especially if it's in a situation that's not like a bar or something where they're expecting to be approached. It seems like you have a lot of anger and frustration about your stutter. I don't know the situation around this interaction but I bet they reacted more to the fact that you approached them to talk to them and got frustrated at yourself while stuttering then your actual stutter. Probably not the advice you want to hear but look after yourself first. You can't control how they react but you can make your own life easier about situation.