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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2021
2 points

Mild stutter that is now pretty invisible to others (it’s still there though). Had speech therapy when I was younger but nothing since before high school. I read up on different experiences with stu...

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commentr/StutterJul 6, 2021
1 points

Thank you! I always get so down whenever I stutter so I’m working on just letting it ago and accepting it...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2021
2 points

I really feel your pain. However, watching yourself presenting can be really helpful. It's painful at the beginning but the more you do it the easier it becomes. Don't forget that's how everyone else...

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postr/StutterJul 5, 2021
3 points

Recently realized that me fumbling over my words constantly is actually a stutter

Recently realized that me fumbling over my words constantly is actually a stutter I’ve always been really self-conscious about the way I speak, but I didn’t realize it was a stutter until… literally y...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2021
2 points

I had a pretty severe stuttering condition from the age of 3 to 14 (I still stutter sometimes, but this age range was the worst in my life) and had trouble even finishing sentences. The constant mocke...

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commentr/StutterJul 4, 2021
3 points

I wouldnt say I totally 'dont care' I still get very anxious, but I have stopped avoiding speaking situations. Basically, I was 21 I was very very depressed. Depression typically makes people care les...

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Mindset shiftShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2021
4 points

I found this really sad to read to be honest. If you like the guy, why should you let something that he cannot control, get in the way? ​ For me my stutter is phycological, if I feel comf...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingValidation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2021
7 points

I can only speak for myself, but after having a long period of barely being able to get past a sentence, when I have something to say, I say it. I always want to make sure my point is understood and m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2021
9 points

Successful communication in a relationship is about so much more than fluency. If he's confident and willing to speak his mind and voice his thoughts and feelings despite the stuttering, that's great....

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Authenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2021
4 points

Disclaimer my stutter use to be moderately severe, but its getting better and its now mild most of the time, so I'm not sure that people with a more severe stutter would feel the same in this situatio...

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commentr/StutterJul 4, 2021
1 points

No, actually stuttering will always hinder your ability to self-express and to connect with others (e.g. most people will feel uncomfortable around a severe stutterer). I see this new trend in stutter...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingFriendships & Belonging
postr/StutterJul 3, 2021
75 points

I am stuttering openly now, this time last year no one heard me stutter

I am stuttering openly now, this time last year no one heard me stutter Hello fello stutterers. I want to share the progress I've made over the past few months. This time last year I was finishing co...

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commentr/StutterJun 30, 2021
11 points

cheers mate! speaking fluently as a stutterer is like breaking free everyday...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJun 30, 2021
27 points

How about not indirectly telling yourself that stuttering is bad

How about not indirectly telling yourself that stuttering is bad When people talk about speech victories in stuttering communities, they often celebrate random moments of fluency, during a phonecall ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJun 29, 2021
27 points

My greatest piece of advice

My greatest piece of advice My greatest piece of advice.. Stop focusing on improving fluency. That peice of advice has allowed me to live the life I have dreamed. And that's not an exaggeration. I...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride+1 more
postr/StutterJun 23, 2021
4 points

Stop telling yourself lies

Stop telling yourself lies As the title says.. There's probably no help for us, we'll stutter (in my case-speech blocks) for our entire lives, sometimes we'll be fluent, sometimes not.. We all know th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & FluctuationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2021
1 points

Thanks, appreciate your comment! The thing is, it is still theory and although I believe that it is true, it is quite hard, honestly for me right now impossible to be myself with the stutter, because ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2021
4 points

It all boils down to fearlessly accepting and or owning the fact that you stutter, and also accepting the reality that not all social interactions will be great ones. (There’s many external factors th...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 21, 2021
9 points

My stutter is certainly part of who I am. Despite any fluency I have achieved, my stutter is an integral part of who I am. I understand the concept of "if only X was different", but that's a cop out....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2021
1 points

Everyone at home knows I have a stutter, so there's never any tension/nerves/embarrassment with blocks, so I put less energy into avoiding them....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking