Search

postr/StutterAug 5, 2021
3 points

Does your stutter get better when switching to other languages?

Does your stutter get better when switching to other languages? I know it sounds weird, and I'm probably not "an official stutter" but hear me out. I never, in my entire life had any stutter issues (...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2021
2 points

She probably won't care. From experience, my current gf is the only one that I've told that I stutter, it was really hard, but her reply made me smile: "I don't even notice that". If you're confident ...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2021
2 points

You son of a ..... You did it . But on serious note , it's like what it is showed in the movie "she's put of your league" it's not if you are enough for her. Are you enough for you ? If you are comfor...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2021
2 points

If she didn't notice your stutter you've either been hiding it really well by speaking in short sentences/being extremely prepared/ or just having a good series of days when you talk to her. It could ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2021
2 points

Well I don't care about biden but hiding own's stutter is a thing even i do. Idk if it's good or anything but I don't want people to notice that i stutter. Yeah my friends know i stutter but if i meet...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2021
1 points

Yes he always talked about stuttering, but up until right before the election he always talked about it in the past tense like its something he overcame. Meanwhile it was apparent to anyone who stutt...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2021
3 points

You probably will never stop 100%. So first accept that and learn to be ok with it. Some people cant hear others cant see we cant talk sometimes. It does suck that this is like the last disability tha...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2021
1 points

Ya, I’ve come to the opinion that everyone in the restaurant you will never see again so why should you care what they think of you and if they do judge you why should you give them the time of day an...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterAug 4, 2021
12 points

Has anyone done landmark forum?

Has anyone done landmark forum? Did the forum about 10 years ago when I was 29-30 years old. It was amazing all the things you learn or that are brought to your attention. I realized there how much st...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2021
8 points

You must realize that stuttering is caused from tension you create from trying not to stutter. It’s cruel because stuttering is just trying not to stutter. Once you accept this and quit trying to “not...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2021
1 points

Joe Biden did not consider himself still a stutterer until his campaign told him he should. We need real inspiration of someone who openly accepts their stutter instead of a man who was so ashamed of...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2021
2 points

You have no idea. I really want to say a BIG thank you for this post too (like the other). I agree with this too. This is what happens to me when the stuttering is forgotten....

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2021
2 points

I’m 19 and I have mildly improved my stuttering, but vastly improved how I feel by consciously accepting that I stutter, and I reject dwelling on any negative thoughts about it. Stuttering is kind of ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2021
2 points

Sometimes trying to hide it makes it worse. Have you ever seen the shirt that says I s-s-stutter? It puts it out in the open and once you see that it’s ok to stutter it won’t hurt as much and then ove...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterAug 3, 2021
16 points

The REAL reason we don't enjoy social interactions..🗣🫂

The REAL reason we don't enjoy social interactions..🗣🫂 The REAL reason we don't enjoy social interactions..🗣🫂 I used to think it was my stutter.  I used to think that if I were fluent, my soci...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
1 points

In my experience, college is nothing like high school. High school kids are all jerks. People in college are much more empathetic. The thing that worked for me pretty well was, right in the beginning ...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & SupportSocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingValidation & EmpathyDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
2 points

Unfortunately for many that synchronization with one's negative emotions never comes. Instead people hide from them in addictive dopamin-inducing behaviors and other coping mechanisms, without ever be...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
2 points

That's also a much healthier approach than "fuck it, I don't care" like in one of the other comments. There's no use ignoring and pretending not have negative feelings. Everyone has them for one reaso...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
2 points

Yes, possibly, especially if you "crave" fluency. I think it changes once u realise that you don't own anyone fluency, my friend....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
3 points

That is interesting and this will be unhelpful for OP, but I like it when people pretend to be slightly distracted so the thought of my facial ticks don't make me stammer more. When I'm done, I look b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking