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commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2023
6 points

There absolutely is something wrong with our ability to communicate. Rainbows and butterflies are nice to hear, but not practical solutions on how to progress in life. Also, stuttering aside, many...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Helplessness & AgencyMindset shift
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2023
2 points

I've experienced this on a daily basis in my life. People don't seem to understand that they're laughing at a handicapped person. In recent years my social anxiety has taken me over because of this an...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencySuicidal Ideation & High Distress
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2023
3 points

Man, this is simply projecting your own insecurities about yourself onto others. Generally, people don’t feel this amount of antipathy against other people and says more about how you view yourself th...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencySeeking Therapy
postr/StutterJan 31, 2023
5 points

Fully aware

Fully aware I am a 18 year old male and My stuttering has got so bad now that I think it will never go away, Speech Therapy or techniques doesn’t help my stutter at all to the point I’m confident that...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2023
6 points

It's true that in the few research studies men have more presence than women. If you're too insecure of your point (and probably yourself based on your victim complex) to argue it, then goodbye...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2023
-1 points

Imagine having a child but not able to face stuttering, you have to be responsible for another HUMAN BEING. The only time I will have children is when I'm in control of my own life....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2023
1 points

That’s why you go to therapy man and figure out how to beat the victim complex. Society will never be nice to people who stutter, that’s life, learn to work through it. It’s gonna take a lot of time a...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Helplessness & AgencyMindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2023
2 points

I love the honesty and straightforwardness, Not alot of people in this community are like you they're all delusional gaslighting fuckers. Here's the thing though, you can't say "don't have a victim co...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2023
0 points

In no way what so ever did I say it’s a “gift from god” but my guy you could be in a wheel chair or have a truly life limiting disability. A stutter is not a life limiting disability unless you let it...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Hope & MotivationTrauma & PsychologicalHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2023
3 points

Same here, dude... 65 million people are feeling you. Stutter is living life with a big disadvantage. I'm trying to make it my strength, but I gotta admit it's so hard sometimes...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2023
6 points

Don't be me and isolate yourself for 3 decades!!! Once I stopped caring what people thought of my stutter, a whole new world opened up. I put myself out there and some days were good, some were bad...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2023
15 points

It's honestly what you want it to be. If you want to avoid people, that's on you. If you want to meet people regardless of your stutter and put yourself out there, also on you. Just know that I was ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2023
1 points

I feel your pain. I sometimes am thinking of forgetting about my passion (ART, theater) and go into Medicine/Neuroscience, sacrifice my life to it, in hopes that the future generation will not have to...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2023
2 points

Are you regretting this? What would you do differently given the opportunity? Questions only you can answer. Learn from this experience. Doing so will help you manage the next time you run into a s...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2023
2 points

I got extremely anxious and dropped it. Now I feel like shit instead of getting relieved of the anxiety. This stutter is just too much at times....

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Helplessness & AgencyStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2023
1 points

I don't recommend you to drop it. I got extremely anxious and dropped it and now I feel like shit. I thought I would feel relieved but instead I feel like a coward and get worried thinking about the d...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencySchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2023
17 points

You realize that all those things you listed that they “have shit for” actually do not have cures. They are long lasting conditions/disabilities that affect people for the rest of their lives. I agr...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Research & ResourcesHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2023
11 points

I share the sentiment. It's one of the issues when you don't know what causes something - it's hard to know where to even begin. And you can't work on solutions until you know what the problem is. The...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2023
1 points

I've already accepted that I will live like this until the end of my days. I no longer have the strength to fight, to look forever for a cure for stuttering, to force myself into society and each time...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+3 more
postr/StutterJan 23, 2023
55 points

Just tired of this disability.

Just tired of this disability. Tired of having to silence myself all the time because I have this stupid fucking stutter. It's to the point where I have no friends, dont speak to my family (that I liv...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation+2 more