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This fear of judgment I feel for me is coming from within you know like me unable to see myself vulnerable enough to stutter. There’s this resistance within that does not let me show any form of vulne...

I definitely get what you’re talking about. It seems like a lot of these issues are from you trying to mask your stuttering. Maybe if you worked on stuttering more openly, then people would see the th...

This. My family went the “ignore it” route and it made me feel like I should be ashamed of it, the elephant in the room. Acknowledge it ans acknowledge that it doesn’t matter, she can still do anythin...

The biggest thing that holds us back from expressing naturally (my opinion)

The biggest thing that holds us back from expressing naturally (my opinion) The fear of judgement is the biggest thing that holds us back from expressing ourselves naturally. This is why I don't agr...

Right right! Yea, honesty is key. It does cause anxiety in the short term but in the long term we can have a lot of connection with others, and feel desensitized to stuttering if we tell people we do....

Oh I agree with this. Not just by seeing their reaction, but I think my stuttering forced me to read people fast. I guess I always felt I was the easiest one to pick at, so I felt the need to be on ...

There is a ton of those kind of videos and they are all pretty generic and its its hard to find someone that speaks to you I think. But I actually read the Jordan Peterson 12 rules for life and there...

Thank you! I'm from Sweden. Yea it really does makes sense and It's something I should try to integrate to myself aswell. I am actually the person doing these things that make me look up to other...

I appreciate the response! Your English is good and happy to hear your thoughts about the chapter. Yea, I understand what you mean by disassociating from the speaking situation and acting out of cha...

Absolutely! I don't know if i can call it tools really, but more of ways that i manage, not necessarily "good" if you know what I mean. (English is my second language btw) I can tell you my story and...

Ok, I see what you mean. But I think still maybe your body is not comfortable with excitement, so it makes you have a stuttering block to dim the feeling. Does this make sense? It happens to me to whe...

I'm not saying you're wrong, but this doesn't ring true for me. I don't feel as though I'm suppressing anything, it's more me being suppressed. I honestly don't think it's psychosomatic. I actually wa...

I think it may have something to do with suppressing our creativity, individuality, and excitement as you said. And we have a fear of influencing others, such as making them laugh, because as someone ...

> and I don't think I will go to school anytime soon, Don't you *dare* surrender to this incident! This is about other people being mean. Don't give them or your stutter power over you. A lot of...

Did it !

Did it ! Hi guys i want to keep u updated, i had that interview that i was frightened of yesterday , i did it guys, i told the interviewer that i stutterer and he seems understandable , he told me he ...

I think even if you are hiding the actual stuttering, there is still mental aspects of stuttering going on inside of you, such as holding yourself back from expressing yourself. You may have developed...

I second this. I think you should. Becoming comfortable with your own voice, regardless of your stutter, is one way to overcome it. You don't even have to upload the first video. Make 5 videos just f...

Let's all commercialize our stutter. Seems like a good move...

I've just acted as if I didn't have it, and only commented if they bring it up. They aren't suppose to discriminate but it obviously happens, we've all experienced it. My point is though you wouldn'...

I'm 21 and have had two real girlfriends (still with one now and hope it stays that way!) and have been with way more people than I ever expected to despite having a moderate-severe stutter. My numbe...