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commentr/StutterJul 18, 2023
5 points

Depends on the situation, but usually the opposite actually. When I’m expecting to speak, I usually sike myself out and focus too much on not stuttering….which you guessed it, results in more stutteri...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & MonitoringHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2023
1 points

I agree, I think it distracts you from the "main word" I guess you could call it. I'd stammer if I just said "McChicken sandwich and fries" so by adding "I'd like a" or "can I get the" it helps the wo...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2023
1 points

Ok, thanks for the input you guys! Zero votes for using stuttering as an excuse not do presentations.. loud and clear (: Maybe I should indeed just point out my stuttering somewhere during the prese...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2023
1 points

I don’t think I deal with it very well, although I’m fortunate to not stammer around strangers as much as I do around family and friends. I also have good friends who don’t give a shit if I get stuck....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightMindfulness & Breathing
postr/StutterJul 18, 2023
11 points

Mentioning your stuttering to co-workers

Mentioning your stuttering to co-workers Hi all, First post here. I have a question regarding stuttering and having to do professional presentations. My co-workers think it would be a good idea if I'...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2023
2 points

A massive NO from me, all my life I've been totally ashamed and embrassed by it, I've never to talked to anyone about it, including my family and partner.. mind you I don't really talk much at all...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2023
14 points

Trying to hide your stutter in a video is not gonna solve this problem. They will eventually find out that your stutter on the first time they speak with you. They are not gonna hire you because you s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2023
3 points

Thanks, I always dreaded being outed by my stuttering since there were times when listeners had no The idea I stuttered until it reared its ugly head. The look of pity and horror on the listener’s fac...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2023
2 points

For me yes. I have been a stutter my whole life but there have been a big change on my mindset while growing up. When I was a kid, I did´ not feel embarassment because of my stutter. I just feel I was...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2023
1 points

You probably can learn new habits to greatly decrease your blocking and verbal tics. (I’m a Jewish woman who’s a preschool teacher. First memory I have of stuttering was being unable to introduce my...

Anticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & Professional
Hiding & ConcealmentPositive Therapy Techniques
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2023
12 points

Yes. In Secondary School I had never had a big issue with my stutter. Although stuttering was obviously daunting me in my day to day, I went to school with my circle of friends and I got along well wi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking Therapy+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2023
2 points

Get talking more then. My speech definitely slips when I don’t ‘keep up’ with it. There was a few weeks during Covid where I didn’t really speak to anyone at all and my speech was worse when I eventua...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2023
3 points

I don't have empirical evidence for you. Just anecdotal (not nonsense.) Severe stutterer until my mid 20s. Never a fluent sentence. Blocks that would last until I ran out of breath. Cluttered speech...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & Professional
Fluency TechniquesHiding & ConcealmentTherapy Experiences+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2023
20 points

Absolutely. Women stutterers seem to hide in the shadows even more than men. Sex roles have a lot to do with it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Hiding & ConcealmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2023
1 points

My brainstorm ideas to get tips for stuttering remission: * [Research](https://drive.google.com/file/d/1fIVTx5LyO3bT19Uw8qiNFlefiqUMHcsv/view?usp=sharing): PhD researcher Yaruss et al, researched "**...

Community & SupportAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Research & ResourcesHiding & ConcealmentPropositionality & Weight+3 more
postr/StutterJul 12, 2023
10 points

First post here

First post here I have been here for quite a bit but nevera posted, mainly because i know everyone suffers stuttering differently so I dont want to upset anyone, i just want ti share some thoughts abo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & SubstancesCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentHelpful Med OutcomesMindfulness & Breathing+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2023
19 points

Negativity is a sure way to repel people. No one likes being around a depressed person. People like fun. Be fun. Even if you have to fake it. Learn to dance. People like someone who dances at part...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2023
4 points

I think we get too comfortable with our family knowing they won't judge us, and subconsciously try less to be fluent, then when talking to co workers, teachers ect we're a little anxious or afraid of ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
3 points

I'm no expert on this because I still in my 30s struggle with anxiety of stuttering and negative mentality. But I've went through periods where I succeeded in things and the only mentality that work...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
4 points

I only stutter when around people, otherwise i have tons of recordings of my own voice speaking like a talk show host . Just don't understand what is causing this to happen...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentEnvironmental Triggers