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commentr/StutterMay 21, 2023
4 points

Stuttering is really a huge pain!- emotionally, psychologically, physically! 😭😢...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2023
2 points

Yeah I know. But the problem is it's engraved into my subconscious to care a certain amount as a defense mechanism due to stuttering causing traumatic violent & embarrassing situations in my youth...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2023
2 points

When you are a stutterer you take everything personally. Ohh it gets worse in dating and marriage scene!!...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentDating & Romance
postr/StutterMay 17, 2023
8 points

Feeling kinda hopeless at the moment

Feeling kinda hopeless at the moment I'm normally pretty positive, but I had a really awful day today. Tried to explain something at work and I just couldn't get any words out. Felt like an idiot, I k...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsCauses & Variability
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2023
3 points

I try to do anything possible to avoid stuttering by substituting words, I end up expressing myself in an abysmal way😔I even cant do a normal project proposal clearly..really breaks my heart for real...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMay 16, 2023
32 points

Anyone else had an experience like this? Someone brought attention to my stutter and it actually made me start to feel proud.

Anyone else had an experience like this? Someone brought attention to my stutter and it actually made me start to feel proud. I was out traveling/working with some friends and we had a late night wher...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMay 16, 2023
9 points

Why will being asked if I have a stutter always feel so gut wrenching. Like I’m being outed

Why will being asked if I have a stutter always feel so gut wrenching. Like I’m being outed ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterMay 16, 2023
30 points

I don’t take offence when people laugh at me in public

I don’t take offence when people laugh at me in public I went to the supermarket to buy 6 prawn skewers from the fresh seafood section. There was a lady in her 50s behind the counter. I stuttered for ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2023
5 points

It’s so embarrassing like I feel so slow and stupid when my brothers friends ask me a question, I feel like I make my brothers look bad...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2023
5 points

**Failing doesn't mean you are a failure:** Whether you think you can, or you think you can't - you're right! \[power of belief in shaping one's reality and achieving success\]. I think that failure ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Helplessness & AgencyShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2023
5 points

Yep she actually disgusts me. Not only is everything she says unfounded and/or straight up wrong, but to be preying on people who are struggling and basically telling them it's their fault they aren't...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Cure Claims / Alt-TreatsShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2023
2 points

My first reaction was to say you're being rather harsh, but thinking back, as kids we were expected to recite poems at family gatherings for Christmas, Easter and the like to "earn" the gifts. Quite t...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2023
10 points

This is so messed up and wrong in every way! Someone with low self esteem would eat this shit up and give them money. As the saying goes, "She has a very punchable face."...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Cure Claims / Alt-TreatsShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMay 12, 2023
9 points

I need help ASAP.

I need help ASAP. I (F29) have a mild stutter and have been able to get and do customer service jobs in the past.( receptionist, cabin crew). Got a receptionist job in a good company last week and bee...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2023
3 points

Sorry but stuttering and embarrassing myself everyday wasn’t part of who I am. Beating it did wonders for my mental health...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
postr/StutterMay 11, 2023
17 points

Blocking embarrasses me

Blocking embarrasses me Went to wish someone a happy birthday but couldn't until after a few seconds since I got a block. It was quite embarrassing for me, and I block often, which I try to counter by...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentBlocks & Stoppages
postr/StutterMay 10, 2023
4 points

Is there anyone here that stutters AND clutters?

Is there anyone here that stutters AND clutters? I feel I have a combination of stuttering and cluttering and it's worse than just having one alone. It has completely destroyed my ability and desire t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentTrauma & Psychological+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2023
3 points

in due time, my friend. This is what say to myself when thoughts flood my mind that i should already had overcome my stuttering and others adjacent challenges in my life. I won't lie, it is not ...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Hope & MotivationShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+1 more
postr/StutterMay 10, 2023
6 points

Finally accepting I (19F) have a stutter. Where do I go from here?

Finally accepting I (19F) have a stutter. Where do I go from here? I have no history or memory of stuttering in my childhood. I knew that something was wrong when I was around 13-14 and my throat woul...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentTrauma & Psychological+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2023
6 points

I get 2nd hand embarrassment when I hear other people stutter because me myself don’t like my stutter either...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment