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commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
8 points

Easiest way just go random and talk with girls,about anything (time,weather and ….) in my life I date plenty girls,now married 15years For me was same I was scared of girls can’t talk at all,but once ...

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Dating & RomanceHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
3 points

Something else too, I agree that it’s the negative thoughts accumulated over many years of stuttering that cause a lack of confidence and make us avoid certain words and block. It’s more specifically ...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
1 points

Something else as well, I agree that it’s the accumulation of negative thoughts over many years of stuttering that causes a loss of confidence, which then makes us avoid certain words and experience b...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
3 points

Honestly, while I value proper terminology, sometimes the imperfect words are ok, as long as you provide description. I have absolutely thought “I need to fix/cure my stutter” but understand it can ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
2 points

Try involving yourself in other things to get out of this cycle. Maybe hangout, or watch something or anything else you love doing. Hope you get over it ♡...

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Hope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
6 points

There is no recovery - recovery is like 100% fluency. You can't realistically aim for that. A fix is something which makes your stuttering manageable...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
2 points

It's good to know that you're genuinely concerned for her. Here are some things that I think you should definitely try for her: First get her into speech therapy soon, because at a young age you're li...

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commentr/StutterNov 23, 2024
2 points

Thanks for sharing - many believe that overcoming stuttering is about finding the secret truth, medicine, or technique. A lot of it is down to minor lifestyle changes with the goal of having a healthy...

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Hope & MotivationQuality of Life
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2024
1 points

I stuttered a lot from a child through till about 14. stayed quite fluent and confident from 14 to about 20, then it went downhill fast after i got anxiety at college ahead of a huge presentation. I...

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Therapy ExperiencesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2024
1 points

Work out, go social and try to stay away from online interactions more than not.  Some is fine but don't feel like you live in it.  Break out of assuming the worst and start assuming the best, no matt...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Hope & MotivationHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2024
2 points

thank you, i genuinely do feel so lucky, and as a person who’s had a stutter since i was 6, i always felt doomed and automatically assumed that no one could ever love me with my stutter, but she chang...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2024
3 points

Local anything is really good! Online, depending on the social media, has a way of getting into peoples heads where we always assume the worst of what people say and it spirals into drama that become...

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Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureMindfulness & BreathingHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2024
2 points

she was dealt a bad hand, but there are also definitely things to be done and growth to be had from it...

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Hope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2024
3 points

1. Some think it's unattractive, some care more about other traits. I know 2 very very successful people including 1 director at my company and one teacher who stutter with all those grimaces and seco...

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Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2024
1 points

I think more or less the same, I do blame God on occasion, when I’m at my lowest. But then I think at the positives of my life, and I’d rather stutter than be totally mute. I have a chance at speaking...

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2024
1 points

Bare in mind that there are countless suffering individuals other than ourselves. Some people will always have it much, much worse than us. In that perspective, we are indeed blessed. God gives you ju...

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commentr/StutterNov 22, 2024
2 points

Second one. Try to mask it by pretending that you're thinking. But stuttering is mostly stress. Calm your breathing. Just breath in and out a few times and your stuttering will reduce by a lot and onc...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionMindfulness & BreathingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2024
1 points

Hey, I get your point. My aim wasn’t to put anyone down or discourage. I just wanted to share a perspective for those who feel stuck or overwhelmed. If my post came off wrong, my bad. I respect what e...

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commentr/StutterNov 22, 2024
2 points

I am a catholic and trust me I often blame all my problems on God as well, especially my stutter. But really, those are the cards we’ve been dealt man, we can either play those cards or rot in our mis...

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2024
1 points

You have to find people that you trust and confide in. Join a lot of support groups online to chat with different people and make some friends that way. Spend time with your family and join a cause th...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
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