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commentr/StutterAug 26, 2023
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I have been placed in the back of a police car because they thought he I was lying about my name. He asked my name and I blocked. Then he got really suspicious and thought I may be drunk/high. I’m s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2023
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I shove it down my throat. If I choke on it, then I just keep forcing it until it goes down. The discomfort is nothing compared to the shame and embarrassment of stuttering....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2023
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i had a similar situation in english class during freshman year on the first day where the sub told us to write things ab ourselves and we had to say it aloud. when it was my turn, i was so nervous bu...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2023
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I remember my first time when I caught myself stuttering. Before that, either I didn't realize or I never stuttered, which is a wild thought. I was in 7th grade, in my classroom, and attempted to cal...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2023
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thanks for sharing, i can relate to every word u said... it's fucked up the way we live and it's even more absurd that we have to endure living like this just to not fuck up our lives even more......

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2023
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I told my Mum at age of 17 that I wished my stutter could be swapped for being lame and stutter-free....

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2023
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I do this alllll the time. One time someone told me "you always forget stuff" 😭😭 honestly tho I'm insecure tbh so I'd rather them think that then think Abt my speech impediments lmao...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterAug 23, 2023
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I'm gonna kms 🙃

I'm gonna kms 🙃 so school started back for me recently and today in Spanish, my teacher just...randomly did a call-and-response activity for everyone in the class; she did it TWICE and I had the wor...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic Life+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2023
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Try not to be ashamed of yourself or frustrate when you stutter, it will help....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2023
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I know what you mean. I’ve done that a few times to get out of a really bad block and always feel horrible afterwards....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterAug 23, 2023
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Easily offended and/or extremely insecure?

Easily offended and/or extremely insecure? Hey, I've been stuttering for as long as I can remember. I recently found a stuttering meme about a stuttering phone number/hotline/I don't remember and it h...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 22, 2023
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I feel you and I’ve been there. The looks people give just seem to eat at your soul over time. When I was still stuttering a lot I would just pretend I didn’t notice or just kinda laugh it off. It d...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 22, 2023
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Yh i agree i have this mentality aswell but when i do stutter i just shell up and become super embarrassed its like a standard reaction...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 22, 2023
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Absolutely. I relate to this so much. Seeing peoples faces when I stutter or have a block is literally unbearable. Like, they’re uncomfortable with my struggle to speak but I have to live with this 24...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterAug 22, 2023
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´´Stuttering & Anxiety self-cures´´ is a bad book

´´Stuttering & Anxiety self-cures´´ is a bad book First off I want to say that I do think the techniques in this book and the theory behind it are quite sensical. The book displays a theory about ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Medicalization / NeurodiversityShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2023
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Yeah your 100% right. Just sometimes I get burnt out & tired of all the BS & pain that comes with putting yourself out there as a stutterer. It's like everything is 10x harder when you have a ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2023
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Eh maybe for some stutterers. But unfortunately my severe stutter has only given me painfull & embarrassing experiences & basically had me in a metaphorical prison for 30+ years. I've had to w...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Helplessness & AgencyShame & EmbarrassmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2023
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Stuttering in front of women makes me want to die inside....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2023
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Yes, I'm sure these events and feeling sound familiar or imaginable for most of us here. I've been stuttering for as long as I can remember, any kind of presentation was always closely connected to an...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2023
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Bro. The thank you part is so dead on. I feel so bad when someone does something kind and I can’t even tell them thank you without staring at them trying to spit it out. Being limited in something as ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentQuality of Life